LuvDuke said:
I went through Hurricane Charley so I know what exactly what you're talking about.
Unfortunately, there are too many here who don't want to hear it because it interferes with their pontification agenda about "personal responsibility". Nevermind the fact that kicking somebody when they're down reflects their lack of common decency. It must make them feel good to look down their nose at those who don't quite meet their standards of personal responsibililty.
And above all, nevermind the fact that many people did exactly what they were supposed to do and got screwed anyway.
But they never let that fact interfere with their own personal soap box. Karma, however, bites us all in the *** eventually. Even the ones who preach the loudest about personal responsibility.
Good luck to you.
You are so wrong. I have no problems helping out those who are truly down. But I also feel that people need to be responsible for themselves. I've got $100,000 in temporary living expenses coverage on my insurance. That would pay for basic furnishings and four years rent on a place while mine was being rebuilt. And if you can't rebuild in that time frame, you're doing something wrong.
I helped out several people who were HELPING themselves after hurricanes the past couple years. I gave furniture and household goods to a couple different families who had reloacted to this area where they had found employment, lent my generator to another family who lost their power after Jeanne, and made arrangements with a parish priest in Vero Beach to have my husband go to board up windows and do some minor repairs for some seniors who had repairable damage after Jeanne.
What I've got a problem with is those who have underinsured, not bought flood when they live in a flood plain, or just given up and are waiting for someone to fix things for them. Since when is it the government or the publics responsibility to make things right for private citizen's? If you own a home, you should have insurance. It's the cost of owning a home. I've got a $10,000 hurricane deductible, and I sure as heck have the savings to cover it should I need to. That's just common sense.
If your home was damaged by a hurricane, why does that become the problem of anyone but you and your insurance company? If you didn't have adequate insurance or savings, whose fault is that?
For every one person still wailing about Hurricane Charley, 1000 people have made their repairs (out of pocket if need be--that was the case of a co-worker who only two weeks ago got her check from her insurance!) and gotten on with their lives. What does that say to you?
If I were in a situation where my insurance wouldn't pay for repairs, I'd take money from my savings to get it done, and fight with them later--bringing in my brother and father-in-law from out of state to do the work with DH if I was unable to get a contractor (which is legal without them having a license if you aren't paying them). I wouldn't just hang around waiting for FEMA to give me a handout.
The entire point of this thread to begin with is FEMA requiring those who shouldn't have gotten a payment to begin with to give it back. That money belongs to the taxpayers of the USA. And God only knows we pay enough taxes as it is to not want to be riupped off by someone who got a payment they weren't entitled to from the beginning.
Anne