Keep in mind, most people that are unhappy about something go on and on about it. Most people that are pleased, say it once and move on. Think about how many times you have had great service at a restuarant. Have you ever told the manager what a fabulous server you had ? But if you have poor service, you probably did tell someone. It's the same here. I would say at least 90% of the couples on here are very happy with their weddings, probably more. So don't let a few unhappy people sway you from the wedding of your dreams. Ours was fatastic !! Happy planning and yes, there are tons of helpful people on here.
PS-Yes, I do pull a manager aside and tell him/her what a fabulous server I had so that the server gets kuddos for his/her hard work.