wow! you guys rock. I freely admit I am not a very good meal planner but in the interest of saving for Disney

we have been doing much better!
loved that last comment about Asian cultures as I have a 20 year old college Junior in Cambodia for a year and a half (doing missions work). When he left, he stood at just over 6'1" and weighed in at around 260 pounds. After 5 months eating traditional Asian foods (yes, rice and rice noodles nearly every meal) he has lost a bit of weight but he also no longer drives, he bicycles or walks, and when he splurges on (very expensive) American imports it is usually carbs, cheese, or take out pizza!
ah well, back to who I feed here. DH, myself, DS14, DD12, DS4, and DD2
I always try to keep dinner under $10 a day and I thought I was doing good with that!

I do average it out tho as someone mentioned those spaghetti nights help (altho I add fresh cucumber and mini carrots on the side or a bagged salad on sale) We also do soup and salad or soup and homemade bread nights or yes, tomato soup and grilled cheese too! Love breakfast casserole dishes for dinner too or waffles or pancakes with a breakfast meat. Other than that we grill a lot. meat and fresh veggies.
lunch is a grab bag that usually comes in under $5 a day. yogurts on sale, sandwhiches, soup, chips and cheese. DH loves leftovers if we have any left he can take with him. kiddos and I also like leftovers for lunch.
breakfast is eggs, toast, oatmeal for 4 of us and usually $1
Walmart waffles
( or left over and frozen pancakes or waffles from Dads Sat/Sun breakfast fest) or dry cereal (purchased on super sale) , kiddos drink milk w/ b.fast
I guess breakfast can vary a good bit but prob.$3-6 is about right.
snacks is a question best left unanswered

no, I have done so much better not buying prepackaged stuff lately. the kids are enjoying lots more fruit, fresh veggies and homemade bars or cookies. there favorite treat is rice krispy treats made with store brand cereal, marshmallows and butter! super fast, super cheap. at least $1-2 a day tho.
so there you have it, I should have started the $20 a day post I guess!
my biggest budget breakers:drinks! 8-10 gallons of milk a week and my horrendous addiction to Diet Coke (no flames please) . Other than that kids drink mostly koolaid (1/2 the sugar of juice) and water. And DH and I drink a good bit of water too. Dh drinks homemade tea (no additives) and generic coffee that he claims is better than most fancy stuff he gets out and about?!