Hmmm...some interesting discussion topics!
We'll probably get to the port mid-morning, and hope to be among the first group board. We'll be staying the night before at WDW, and expect flying down the day before...but we don't have our flights booked yet

. We do, however, have the rental car booked to bring us from Orlando to Port Canaveral.
On board, I'm hoping we won't be up too early, although our two year old will have a say in that...actually, what a lot of it depends on is what dining time we end up with...we ended up with late dining when we switched our reservation several weeks ago to take advantage of a promo...we're hoping we might still clear the waitlist and get back to early dining, but if not, I expect we'll "shift" schedules...where our kids usually go to sleep between 7pm-8pm, I think we'll try to shift them to 9:30pm-11pm bedtimes...and just hope we get the corresponding sleeping in!
Not sure about the homework...our oldest just started first grade, and just got her first homework assignment on Friday, so we'll have to see.
Palo is definately on our agenda...depends in part on when we're able to book Flounders Nursury...since this is our first
Disney cruise, we can't make any reservations until the end of next month...we may end up doing the brunch instead.
As for excursions, havn't really thought about it...big attraction for us is
Castaway Cay...we loved both the private islands (Half Moon Cay via Carnival and CocoCay via
Royal Caribbean) we've been to, and look for those on the itinerary when we book our cruises. For St. Thomas, we're likely going to stay on the ship (we've been there twice, and don't like having to tender with a toddler), and for St. Maartin, will likely go to Orient Beach and/or stoll around Marigot (I think our six year old, who's in French Immersion, will get a kick out of visiting the French caribbean).