OP has scared me with her initial post as well as her DD (dirty delete). I didn't think FE's were designed to break the bank! I just signed up for my first FE for the Hawaiian 9/17 cruise. I'm of the mindset that we will be getting stuff that's similar to trick or treat bags. Some candy, maybe some bookmarks, cheesy toys, etc. As it is my first one, I'm hoping I'm not in too big a group. I do consider myself crafty but not original. I'll be all over Pinterest to see what Disney themed projects pick my eye and then replicate it. Depending on the size of the group will affect how much or how little I spend on the FE. I'm also under the impression that doing FE's are a gamble. Just like penpals, you may get people who are awesome and some who flake. GL to all!