We have been going to Disney since DD1 was 2 (1994). We used to get APs and do two trips within a year, sometimes staying for 2 weeks at a time. We have only missed one year of being at WDW. One of the things I loved about WDW was that we felt everyone was treated equally. We were a lower middle income family and we did not often go to the movies, out to eat, etc. because our trips to WDW were our splurge and worth saving for. But, when we were walking around Disney we were treated like valued guests and equal to other guests. Yeah, I know there are VIP tour guests, Club 33 guests, etc but I mean the same as the average guest.
We've moved up in income and are probably what would be considered upper middle class in our area but we can not spend (aren't willing to with what we are already spending) what they might be asking us to with the lightning pass. We will be stuck waiting to even get in line I guess. I suppose we will feel like the poor guests who aren't valued. Not really a feeling I will like. And, not something I look forward to having to explain over and over again to my young grandsons. It's not about caring what people think about me, it's about relaxing and enjoying a vacation where I feel just as valued as the next person.
There will be eight of us going in January. It will be me, my husband, three adult daughters with the oldest daughter's husband and two children. My one daughter can afford to buy passes for herself but one is in college, and my oldest's family is not in a position to buy much extra. How do we justify spending $80 to even $200 a ride extra? I just can't do that. Do we just wander around the park waiting to be called to get in line. This all sounds so miserable. I'm hoping all this is a bad dream because right now I am not even looking forward to our trip. It sounds like a time of being glued to my phone and worrying about it telling me where to go and what to do next. I will try to make it a good trip for our grandsons because I really don't know when we will go back if it's as bad as I fear it will be.