ponyboy
baseball, baseball, baseball
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It used to be that the American dream was that you could live in America, and as long as you were willing to work hard, you could get a house and raise a small family. (even on minimum wage)
This is no longer possible. You now need two incomes, just to raise a single child and be a home owner. IN this way America is "less great" than it once was. (and so naturally we would not attract the low-wage workers needed for manufacturing)
The fact is, today people are lazier and want more. In the past poor people were poor and they knew they were poor and they lived with less and would work harder until they weren't poor anymore.
Today poor people think it's their right to have cellphones, two cars, enough money to eat out every night, cable tv, Xbox live, etc and if they can't afford all of that then our government will steal from others so that they can.
My wife and I got married when I was 20 and she was 18. We had a kid that same year before either of us were a year older. We didn't have anything of our own other than my car. We couldn't afford child care so I got a decent job making $7/hr and I worked any other odd job I could find to make extra money. We bought her a car for $500.
Between all of that work, I went to college on student loans. I got a better job and made more money. I still did all kinds of other stuff to make whatever extra I could to support my wife and even more kids. My wife worked in high school and ever since then she's been at home raising kids.
I've ran internet businesses out of my house, started up several other small businesses working with the courts. I've started up websites and learned how to make money off advertising so that they were making money while I was off doing other work making money. I worked harder at my normal job getting raises and promotions. The whole time I was learning and working hard.
Two years ago I started up a business I wanted to do for a long time but I didn't have the capital. In the first full year ending Dec 2013 it didn't $750k in total revenue. This year 2014 it's projected to do about $2M in total revenue.
We now have 5 kids, just moved into a new house on 3 acres in a nice housing addition with "estates" in the title next door to my sister who is a director at a local hospital. We have two paid for vehicles, two dogs, two cats and a flat screen tv in just about every room.
None of this was given to me. I worked hard for every single dollar I have and everything that we own. I've done without stuff so that my wife and kids could have things that they needed or wanted. I'm still working hard so that in a few years I don't have to work so hard anymore. I don't think I've strung more than maybe 3 days together since the last time we went to Disney in 2012. Most months I work pretty much every day in some capacity without any days off. We still aren't rich but we're a lot better off than where we started 18 years ago.
I don't want to hear about how the American Dream is dead and nobody can improve their situation. I did it and I did it all by myself through hard work. Anybody that is physically healthy enough to get out there and work and says that they can't improve their situation is lazy. There are opportunities to improve their life everywhere but they rather just sit at home on the couch and tell everybody about how hard they're working to not get anywhere.
I made minimum wage at one time and now I pay 8 people better than minimum wage. All it took was a bunch of hard work.