Can't advise on the restaurant issue, but, we did take in Fantasmic on our last trip---it's an AWESOME show---the best advice I can give is if your kids are startled/scared of fireworks, you may want to sit this one out---we saw LOTS of kids there when we were there last year and they all seemed to be taking it very well---I never heard screams and crying, like our first trip, with the Alien...I declare, some folks need there heads examined---it was pretty cool---but I was 30 something and there were kids in there that were TERRIFIED---I think it all depends on the child---and only you can make that call...good luck and if you all take in this show, I hope you enjoy it, we LOVED IT and see it as a "not to be missed!" At the end of the show, be ready with your camera and have one that takes GOOD photos at night, because a lot if not ALL of the WDW characters come out of beautiful boats! Again, good luck.