We went in Nov 2003 and used the Fantasmic Dinner package. We were seated in the far right section of the theater and the seats, in my opinion, were good. You could see everything going on, but you certainly did not have a center stage view.
We booked dinner at Mama Melrose - ALLLLLLLLL the way across the park. One disadvantage was booking dinner at 4:30 so you could enjoy dinner and make it to the show on time. One thing that bothered me was that you were required to get appetizers - in this case, 2 pizzas - salad, and your meal. I can't remember about dessert. It really was too much food. There were 6 of us, 4 of whom were children. They assumed the kids would eat the pizzas, which they didn't. The pizzas were the fancy kind - nothing the kids would even touch. We ended up taking them back to VWL for lunch the next day.
We will probably book the dinner package again this coming December at one of the other restaurants. For us with 4 kids (ages 3, 5, 6, and 7), it was very nice to just walk into the arena and have seats and not have to wait in line with a lot of people.
You enter through a special gate - near where you get the
stroller rentals. You can take your stroller up the hill with you, but you must leave it outside the arena. If you have a rental stroller, they tell you to take all your personal belongings with you so when the show is over, you just grab any stroller and go instead of looking for your stroller in the dark. You do not exit through the same gate you came in through, though. You exit near the picnic tables near TOT with everyone else leaving the arena.