figmentcookie
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I had lunch with my BM today and tried to find when she'll be available to go with me to get my dress fitted. She's really busy right now and I'm trying to plan ahead.
We set a date for July 5 because she'll be less busy by then. I called DM to see if that date would work for her because BM can make it. She chastised me saying, "I don't know why you're trying to turn this into a circus by trying to bring 2 other people." She thinks it should be just me and her, like it was when we purchased my dress. She then continued to say, "Well if that's what you're going to do, I'll get my dress fitted some other time all by myself." She wasn't interested in having me even go with her to try on dresses. Then she sent me this email:
My DD isn't helping because he keeps threatening her with a divorce after almost 40 years the day after my wedding. He tells her that about once a month for the past 10 years, which is an awful thing to do anyone. It's also not my place to judge their relationship, so I try to let it go. He's not an easy person for anyone to deal with. At the end of the day, I can understand why she gets upset especially with this hanging over her head
And, as I posted before, my MOH was thinking of bailing on me a month ago.
We're inviting seven people to the wedding, which is in exactly four months from today, so it's only people that we're close to... so all this stings quite a bit. I know it's not all about me, but the negativity is just really squishing my excitement for all of this. At this point, I'm not sure why I'm not eloping with DF. My hater blockers
aren't working well today and I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening. 
We set a date for July 5 because she'll be less busy by then. I called DM to see if that date would work for her because BM can make it. She chastised me saying, "I don't know why you're trying to turn this into a circus by trying to bring 2 other people." She thinks it should be just me and her, like it was when we purchased my dress. She then continued to say, "Well if that's what you're going to do, I'll get my dress fitted some other time all by myself." She wasn't interested in having me even go with her to try on dresses. Then she sent me this email:
My DD isn't helping because he keeps threatening her with a divorce after almost 40 years the day after my wedding. He tells her that about once a month for the past 10 years, which is an awful thing to do anyone. It's also not my place to judge their relationship, so I try to let it go. He's not an easy person for anyone to deal with. At the end of the day, I can understand why she gets upset especially with this hanging over her head
And, as I posted before, my MOH was thinking of bailing on me a month ago. We're inviting seven people to the wedding, which is in exactly four months from today, so it's only people that we're close to... so all this stings quite a bit. I know it's not all about me, but the negativity is just really squishing my excitement for all of this. At this point, I'm not sure why I'm not eloping with DF. My hater blockers
aren't working well today and I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening. 
