Families...

[STOPxmickeytime]

My parents are supportive of my goals and ideas of what I want to do when I'm older, and they take my side if I say a teacher was annoying or something, but they also tease me.

Like, just good-naturedly, it doesn't bother me that much.
But every once in a while, it gets annoying when my mom starts telling her friends stupid stuff I said, especially when I babysit for them.

I don't tell my family anything about my friends, or who I like, or who I'm going out with, though.
And I don't really talk about how I feel.
But we don't have a bad relationship.

 

[Sparx]

i have the best mom in the world. i love her. shes my hero. i dont' know how i could get through a day without her. shes my rock.

look, i'm a freakin crazy person to live with. i'm all over the place. i'm easily enchanted and even more easily disenchanted. i'm insane half the time. i'm messy and pretty much a slob.

my mom can put up with me, which is probably more than most people on the planet can do.


and about my dad. well hes better than anything out there too. i wasn't born to him, he picked ME out. out of everyone in the world, he wanted to be MY dad. He wanted me more than he wanted children of his own.


my family is amazing.

 

[PurpleDucky]

Me and my mom have the best relationship. I can talk to her about anything and she understands. I love her so much because she's like my best friend

My dad...he's the complete opposite. That's all I'll say

 

[PowerMonkey]

i dont talk to my family about much lol.. they just wont really understand whats going through my mind... but i have very close friends in which i consider family .. i tell them everything and they do the same

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I just feel so bad

Like this morning i completely lost it i cried in front of her...and what does she do?...

She yelled at me...



I know it could very well be worse but i just sometimes wish...ya know?

 

[hippinhoopster]

My parents are like Jekyl & Hyde when it comes to listening to my problems. Sumtimes they are so supportive and give me tons and tons of advice and others they just like to tease me about my problems. I hate when they say stuff like you just wait until you my age and then you'll know what problems are. Well I am not their age yet and I have my own issues for my own age and they are important to me. I luv my Mom & Dad but sumtimes I just have to seperate myself from them because they can drive me batty.

 

[crazytp93]

Its tough talking to your parents/guardians about this stuff. But try your best too.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I cant at all

Ive completely shut doors that ever led to telling them stuff

 

[hippinhoopster]

I cant at all

Ive completely shut doors that ever led to telling them stuff

You can't completely shut yourself off to your parents they have way to much good stuff to give ya.

 

[Babyjustrun]

My family's pretty easy to talk to, but I usually don't talk about personal stuff.
I would never tell my mother who I like, because she wouldn't know who it is.
And I just don't share.
But I'll talk to my mum about my day at school, and whine about a few things.
I know what I'm able to share, and what would take me hours to get out of me in the first place.

See, it's not my family that's the problem, it's me.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

You can't completely shut yourself off to your parents they have way to much good stuff to give ya.

I never said i put locks on the doors

 

[hippinhoopster]

I never said i put locks on the doors

that's good

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Currently im learning in health that you should talk to your family about how you feel...


Am i the only one that just cant do that?

If i tell them how i feel they either

A. Make fun of me
B. Yell at me
C. Im making a big deal about crap
OR
D. Saying im too young for these problems


For instance

I once told my mom that i think i might have depression...but instead she said "Oh no honey you dont have depression" how would she bloody know?

and i once told my mom who i liked and she ended up telling the rest of the family and laughing AT EVERYTHING
if they see me saying hi to him BOOM "hahaha" its so not funny and it hurts my feelings

and whenever i try to sit down to talk to my family about these problems all i get is "No you know what i dont have to listen to these problems start talking rational and then i will listen"

and it just hurts


what should i do?

Am i the only one with these problems?

My family is exactly the same! I can talk to them about some stuff, like fights with friends, when I'm feeling stressed, ect. But other stuff I have to keep to myself for my own safety. Writing it down or talking with a friend are good solutions.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Mhmm

When i grow up I PROMISE to listen to my kids problems and actually help them

I would want a relationship with them where they could tell me ANYTHING

 

[hippinhoopster]

Mhmm

When i grow up I PROMISE to listen to my kids problems and actually help them

I would want a relationship with them where they could tell me ANYTHING

i agree with that.

 

[pigletgirl]

I really want that too. I also don't want to be a hovering mother who swoops in everytime something goes wrong. That isn't right either. I also don't want to be too distant as well.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I really want that too. I also don't want to be a hovering mother who swoops in everytime something goes wrong. That isn't right either. I also don't want to be too distant as well.

Ditto

I wouldnt want them to become so attached to me that when they go off to midd school it would be "STOP TALKING ABOUT MY MOTHER "

Nope i would want it to be where they could tell me about anything if they had a problem and i wouldnt yell at them about it

 

[CrazyChik]

I can talk to my brother.
I gave up on my parents long ago.

 

[Pirate Me]

I can talk to my mom about anything...but I'd feel weird doing so.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I can talk to my brother.
I gave up on my parents long ago.

I can talk to my brother about some things

Infact lately ive been talking to his gf about problems