sorry for your loss, Patsy.
I send out Christmas cards. I try to have them done by Dec. 15th. My family has always sent out photo cards--my parents started doing it in 1958 when my brother was a year old. (he was born Dec. 1957). When we get most of us together (usually at my nephew's birthday in July), we take a family picture. This year, we're actually using a picture we took at Easter. Dad sends out about 125 to family & friends. The last few years, I've started sending a picture card to my friends. I send about 30. We get them at Costco, so they're pretty cheap, they even have Disney designs. Dad will probably go order them soon, so I've got to make out my list. I send regular Christmas cards to family since they already get a picture from dad.