SlightlyGoofy
<font color=green>I shall be forced to take you on
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Dear Jstmee
I am so glad that through technology you are able to SEE your DH but I feel so badly that he is not there as much as you would wish. It is a hectic world we live in where we feel we have to work so much and do not get to spend the time with people we love. I find myself sometimes realizing that I am spending too much time on th ings that do not matter much and neglecting some of my friends. I imagine it is very hard on your DH to be away from you all so much and knowing that he needs to work also. A hard balancing act. It is wonderful that you guys thought of the webcam idea.
It sounds so lovely where you live, at least most of the year. I think I would dread the winter months tho. I have enough trouble down here. I do not do ice and snow. I told them at the school library when I signed up to volunteer that the bad news was that I was almost deaf, sick a lot and did not drive on icy days BUT I could work for free. I guess that they thought the second fact overrode all the other problems. LOL I have often dreamt of an Alaskan cruise to see the whales and such and you only have to go such a short distance. Have you ever dreamt of going to the Indy 500 or Kentucky Derby? We could swap homes for a week or two. LOL
It is much more relaxing now that I know that Mittens safely survived her night on the town. Sure glad that she does not tell us what she has been up to as it might cause us some heart flutters. I believe I will order a frozen drink also, no sugar, no alcohol tho. OK, I like just plain ice to tell the truth. The EWP was a little more sparkley tonight. Must be the patriotic fervor of the times.
Slightly Goofy
I am so glad that through technology you are able to SEE your DH but I feel so badly that he is not there as much as you would wish. It is a hectic world we live in where we feel we have to work so much and do not get to spend the time with people we love. I find myself sometimes realizing that I am spending too much time on th ings that do not matter much and neglecting some of my friends. I imagine it is very hard on your DH to be away from you all so much and knowing that he needs to work also. A hard balancing act. It is wonderful that you guys thought of the webcam idea.
It sounds so lovely where you live, at least most of the year. I think I would dread the winter months tho. I have enough trouble down here. I do not do ice and snow. I told them at the school library when I signed up to volunteer that the bad news was that I was almost deaf, sick a lot and did not drive on icy days BUT I could work for free. I guess that they thought the second fact overrode all the other problems. LOL I have often dreamt of an Alaskan cruise to see the whales and such and you only have to go such a short distance. Have you ever dreamt of going to the Indy 500 or Kentucky Derby? We could swap homes for a week or two. LOL
It is much more relaxing now that I know that Mittens safely survived her night on the town. Sure glad that she does not tell us what she has been up to as it might cause us some heart flutters. I believe I will order a frozen drink also, no sugar, no alcohol tho. OK, I like just plain ice to tell the truth. The EWP was a little more sparkley tonight. Must be the patriotic fervor of the times.
Slightly Goofy

I got choked up reading a few of your most recent posts! I'm sure that he misses you all very much, too, when he's travelling, and wishes that he could spend more time at home. That's great that you are able to see and speak to one another via computer, though (I always knew that we would see that technology in our lifetime - kind of like the telephones on "The Jetsons"!) But if you ever feel lonely, please know that we're here for you, in the Suite! Even if we can't see or speak to one another in person, we can always "come" here for good friends and fun conversation! I'm sure that you looked absolutely beautiful at both of your weddings! You too, by the way, SG! I was a size 8 at my first wedding. In fact, I just packed up my first wedding dress (I looked at it for the first time in a long time and could not believe that I ever fit into it!) and veil with the thought of giving it to charity, when I'm ready to part with it - it still "lives" at my parents' house. Now I wear size 18-20-22, depending on the cut and the piece of clothing. Whatever. Hopefully I'll be a bit smaller by the time of my wedding, but I'm not going to kill myself to get there. I also exercise just about every day, and have recently started eating better and at more reasonable times of day (having DF here, now, helps with that - someone to actually sit down to dinner with at a "normal" dinner time!). I'm not meant to be really thin - to stay the size 8 that I once was, I basically had to starve myself and exercise every day. (not hard when I had an "ex" who constantly commented on everything that I ate) But at the same time, I want to be healthy. I see what's happened to my mother by not going to doctors, not taking care of herself, and becoming obese (around 300 pounds) - and ultimately getting diabetes - and I don't want that to happen to me. Just like you said about your wonderful DH's, Jstmee and SG, my DF also thinks that I look great just as I am, which makes me very happy (and I wasn't lacking for dates after divorcing "ex" and getting together with DF 2 years ago, so we know that not ALL men are only interested in those stick-figure-types!). But I wouldn't mind trimming down a bit for my own peace of mind.
I just can't get over how much all you all seem to do. Today I visted my grandmother and dropped off some quarters and dimes for her. She uses them to go get sodas from their loung in the apartment building she lives in. If I could smack my 90 year old grandmother I would. I only say this because she went on about being useless and being a pest. I told her that she is never a pest and it is always wonderful to hear the stories of her life. She has lived through a lot... two world wars, the depression, all the ups and downs some of us have only read about in history class. It never amazes me to hear what she has to say. I feel good going to see her and she feels like she is wanted. I don't know what I'll do once she is gone.