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Hi Ladies!!


Wow, it seems like forever since I've been on to say Hi! And it really has been. Sorry I haven't caught up, but while I'm on now I thought I'd say Hi. I'll catch up tomorrow, or whenever I have the time to really sit down and find out how you all are!

Life around here has been pretty busy. My teeth healed, and the swelling finally subsided as well. Cross country started, and Wednesday is our first meet. I'm in better shape than I thought I was, and it's going pretty well. It's a lot of fun with my friends, and I'm really enjoying it. Besides that, school is alright. I'm not really having trouble with anything, but I've started getting into the habit of taking notes and preparing myself for tests like I will have to next year, and it's taking a long time to get used to, and find out the best way to organize things and all. It also takes along time to take notes on important things, especially in history and science where I read a lot of pages. Algebra is easier than I thought, and I'm having no trouble with that. I love the book I'm reading right now in reading, "Johnny Tremain" it's really interesting. For pleasure, I'm reading "Gone with the Wind" which I also enjoy.

Yesterday I got home from a weekend in Pennsylvania visiting my brother and cousin at college. We stayed with my aunt and uncle, and my 4 year old and 3 month old baby cousin. That was a lot of fun, and I only wish we could have stayed longer. We skipped the football game because it was POURING with the effects of Ivan. That night though, we went to a debate between Bill Bennet and Howard Dean. I'm not much on politics but I enjoyed it well enough.

Tomorrow we don't have cross country and I'm doing the 8th grade bike trip with my friends. Then there is a pot luck after that, so that'll be a lot of fun.

Well, it's finally dinner time, and I should go. I hope everyone is well, and I'll definatly catch up soon. :D Have a great week!

Caroline
 
Hi everyone, I am dead dog tired so this is just to let you all know that we are safely home. That is saying something as the remanents of Ivan chased us down the mountains and we had to return an alternate route as 40 was decimated. Will write more details later and catch up with you all but I need some sleep. Drove over 600 miles today and all of me is wiped out, one part is a bit more tired than the rest though. :teeth:

SG/Linda
 
So glad to hear that you and Tom made it home safely, Linda! Your drive home certainly sounds like an adventure! It was very nice of you to check in with us and let us know that you're all right, especially after such an exhausting trip! I think it's very admirable to have driven that 600 miles, by yourself! Now you can take a nice rest...........before gearing up for that trip to THE LAND OF MAGIC, next month! :)

Hi Caroline! Great to hear from you! We figured that you were probably busy with school and sports, and that's why you haven't been able to stop by for a bit. Glad to hear that all is well, though! It sure sounds like you've been keeping busy........and the school year has just begun! You'll have to keep us posted about your great successes in your upcoming Cross Country Meets! How long (in miles) was your bike trip, yesterday? It's so funny to hear you talking about algebra, since I spent the better part of my summer re-teaching it to myself from scratch! But I'll tell ya - I'll NEVER forget how to do quadratic equations again, now! :)

Speaking of which, I got my official GRE score report in the mail, a few days ago, and found that I wound up doing better than I thought I did. Just looking at my scores out of context, they seemed a bit too "average" to me. But the official report reflects the percentage of people who scored below me in each category.......and those percentages are a lot larger than I would have predicted! I also scored one-step-below-perfect on the analytical writing (essay) section! So, hopefully that means better news than I'd originally thought! I guess all of that studying paid off more than I'd thought it did!

Hope that all is well with all of you and hope that you're having a nice week! :)
 
Hi, everyone. Just wanted to let you know we survived Ivan the Terrible. Just got our power back this afternoon. School was back in session for us today, but most schools will go back next monday. No real structural damage, but LOTS of trees down. Unfortunately, Gulf Shores, Pensacola and beyond are just destroyed. It's impossible to go east on I-10 past pensacola, for at least 3 months, becuse the bay bridge collapsed into the bay.

No, LInda, we didn't go to Orlando, we ended up in North Georgia, a normally 6 hour trip that took more than 12 hours, and we STILL got part of the storm, as you all know. Thank goodness we didn't go to WDW, because we'd have had a terrible time getting back. There was just something not right about going on vacation while things were so bad here. FOX10TV.com has pics of the damage to the Gulf, if anyone is interrested.

It sounds like everyone is getting back into the swing of school and everything that goes along with it. I am still catching up on old posts whenever I can.

Take care,

Angelina
 

I am so sorry to be just getting back to you all. I had a TOPS meeting yesterday morning (down 1.75 pounds) and did not even take my friend out to eat before I took her home. She was nice enough to allow me to run into the store to get some basics while she waited. She is uses a walker and her husband will bring her to town for the meetings but will not wait to take her home so I and another lady take turns taking her home. I did take her through the drive thru to get an ice cream cone. Such small pleasures are important when you are housebound, for the most part. I put away the cold stuff and pretty much spent the rest of the day in bed. I was sound asleep by 8 last night and was up at 3 this morning, will throw my whole schedule off but could not be helped. Us old folks need our rest.

Angie, I understand how you feel about being on vacation while the world is falling apart. I was on a cruise when the big earthquake hit California and was at Disney right after 9/11. It is a strange feeling. I am glad that you were able to be in a safe area though. I was very aware of how lucky we were to have gotten through the destruction in the area we were in. I have a sil in Pensacola and have not heard how she is as yet. I am just waiting until it is later in the day to call and check on people.

Lisa, you were surprised to find yourself in the top of the essay part of the test? I am not in the least bit surprised. You are a wonderful writer and so much more organized than I am. (scattered brained is what I am) It is not bragging when it is true and you are one smart cookie. I have found that many inferior people get ahead solely on their false impression of their wisdom while better brained people sometimes do not have the confidence in their abilities that enables them to get to where they should be. Please see that your friends and many others are not wrong when they say that you are smart, capable and should rise to the top, like cream. LOL BTW, you WILL forget quadratic equations or whatever else you learned if you do not need to use it in your life. Our brains only have so much memory and they kick out that which we do not use. (grin) Is the nature of the beast.

Caroline, maybe you will come to Hope to ride in our bike ride some year? We had hundreds participate this year. Some famous (I had not heard of him tho) country singer and his band participated. Guess they were in the area for a concert and heard about it. 100 miles is our longest ride. The people of our town make homemade goodies for the riders to snack on. All the money goes to the Food Bank. I will keep a room open for you.

I have some other good news. My friend, in the nursing home, might be getting out. Her brother from Alabama is coming to pick her up and take her to Florida to live with another brother and his wife. They are fixing up a room for her and hope to get a few pieces of what is left of her furniture from the son and dil. They did not show up for the last court hearing and I am worried that the son will get in big trouble. He is currently in FL working on restoring power and working 16 hour days as the wife has gone through the money. My bet is that when it hits the fan the wife will leave and he will end up broke, in deep debt, owing massive child support while she goes on to sucker some other poor slob. Hope I am wrong but doubt that I am. I am picking up Mary and bringing her to my house for the parade on Sunday. She can sit in the LR and then go out on the porch for the parade. Hopefully another older friend in another nursing home will be able to come too but her family has to bring her so I am not sure about that one. Hope so though. It is sad to be put away after working your whole life to take care of others.

My trivia meet was wonderful. It was to have rained the whole time but it did not. Everyone was just what I thought they would be. Seeing the faces of dear friends was fantastic. When I got there they were waiting outside for me and made me feel so darned special. We had two trivia games and I am proud to report that I had the good luck (it is all in the questions) to win both matches. They ate out about five times a day but I did well (as reported earlier). Only junk I ingested was one piece of New Zealand candy, could not resist trying something new but I avoided my 'twins" homemade chocolate chip cookies. LOL The hardest part of driving 600 miles in one day is trying to keep an eye on my passenger who has strange habits. He has been known to shift gears while in motion and almost decapitated a poor man who was leaning in the car to give me directions. He was only a few inches from Tom's face and Tom said he did not see him. Has always been thus. The trivia team gave Tom a question to answer "What cigarette is named after an animal". I had to give him clues and he smoked that brand for 54 years.

When we returned home our daughter and grandsons were at our door. Dalton jumped up and down when he saw me pulling into the drive. I was hardly able to get out of the car and Jackie helped to unload the car. I was most grateful. Manged to crawl into the living room and sit for a few minutes and then the door bell rang. It was the church group for another surprise visit. I was just too darned tired to care and even though these were people I knew I told them that I was not able to have company, they only stayed about a half an hour as opposed to their usual couple of hours. (sigh) One good thing is that dd was forced to allow me to hug her as she left cause there were witnesses. I took full advantage and even planted a kiss on her cheek. Goes to show that you don't mess with tired old broads. (grin)

Remember my friend who is over housekeeping at AS Sports? I emailed her to see how she survived the storms and was glad to hear that all was well in that area but was shocked to learn that she had had some severe health problems and is on a leave of absense after needing emergency implantation of a pacemaker. She is a tiny little thing and such a special person. I hope to be able to see her if we get to go in October.

So much news and I do believe I might be running out of 'paper'. Wonder if that is possible? If it is, I will do it. (smile)

SG/Linda
 
Hi everyone! Been a bit buys at work, and can't ever seem to get on long enough to do a good catch up at home.

Linda, you are right... a lot of the time it isn't worth the extra income for a family. However, with my income we can't give it up just yet... we hope to pay down some things like student loans before I totally get out of the work force :) With kids though, it becomes really hard since most incomes barely cover the extra expense of daycare and the like.
Very glad that you made the trip home okay, despite the bad weather!

Angelina, I have a good friend who lives in Alabama, so my prayers were with y'all down there. He called me twice last Thursday to keep me posted on the storm. I am glad you finally got power back. He was lucky and only went w/o power for 2 days. Good luck with all the cleanup... I did see about I-10 and that was so sad :(

Colleen, good luck to you with all the unpacking and moving stuff. Our previous owners were the worst type of "home improvement" people... they did it, but were clueless on how to do it all correctly. We have a lot to fix due to their mistakes.

Lisa, even with teh cold, sounds like you had a nice weekend! Ivan caused the drops in temps on Friday like you had on Saturday... wonder if it was the reminants of the storm passing through. Actually Ivan caused some bad flooding in OH, TN & PA :( That was not a very good storm to deal with.
Congrats on the good percentages on your GRE!!! Sometimes things like that really help put it all in perspective!

Caroline, always good to see you! Looks like you have been keeping busy! Glad your teeth healed and more os that you are in better shape than you thought. It was always hard for me to get back into the real runnign when school started in the fall after a summer off.

Nothing terribly exciting with me going on at the moment... which is probably a very good thing :)
 
Hi ladies. Well, everyone sure is busy lately. Hello to all. I am glad everyone is home safe and sound despite the "Armageddon" weather we have had. My parents flew home to Allentown PA on Saturday evening and were greeted with the worst flooding the Lehigh Valley has seen in a long time. Mom said they missed the worst of it on Friday, was glad they were safe here in Indiana, but Ivan was truly a baddie even in Pennsylvania. Mom's neighborhood is fine but lots of roads very close by are under water. She said the Delaware flooded the whole downtown area near where they live, and the McDonald's down there was under water but for the roof and yellow arches sign! Yikes!

We are busy unpacking daily. I keep finding more things to do and slowly this is becoming "our" house. I got a nice picture of the kids on the porch with my parents and have to figure out how to post it here. The carpet man is coming today and I have told him I expect miracles! Once the boxes are all unapcked we can start to paint. Ian wants his room blue so I guess I will do that first. Going to go to the "DIY" site I heard about here. "Do it Yourself" isn't always the easiest, but usually the CHEAPEST! :)

Love to all.
 
Hi Everyone!

So glad to hear that you and your family made it to and from Georgia safely, Angie, and that your home and area sustained no significant damage. Thank God. So great to hear from you and so glad that the storm is over! And glad to hear that your power has been restored and that schools are beginning to open again, too.

How are you feeling, Linda? You're so busy - you need to take a tiny bit of time to rest and recuperate from your exciting trip! Great to hear that you received such a warm welcome from your Trivia Group upon arrival.........AND from your family upon your return home! That is wonderful! And CONGRATULATIONS on winning those matches - we had no doubt that you would be the champion, once again! I hope that the folks at Millionaire are getting ready for your arrival and your ultimate triumph there, next month! :) And that's great news about your friend in the nursing home, hopefully being able to move in with her brother. That sounds very hopeful. I'm sorry to hear about her son's predicament, though - that sounds awful. His wife sounds like a real "piece of work". So nice of you to host your friends for the parade! AND to spend time with the Church Group, even though you'd practically just gotten out of your car, after that long trip! And thanks so much for your wonderful, supportive words as always!

Thank you, too, Elaine! And hope that you're hanging in there at work! Is this just a busy season in general, or are you working on some special projects?

Lots of good luck with your carpeting today, Colleen! As you complete each one of these "pieces" (carpeting, beginning to paint, etc.), I'm sure that your new house will feel more and more like home! Just take it one day at a time - it will all get done! And please post that picture, if you have a chance - we'd love to see it! :) Glad to hear that your parents made it home safely. I can definitely believe the extent of the flooding, there - we keep seeing news reports about the flooding in Western NJ - unbelievable. We live very close to the Raritan River - I'm sort of surprised that the Delaware flooded but the Raritan didn't! Glad to hear that your parents' neighborhood was not badly affected by the storm or the floods!

Not too much to report, here! Just catching up on a bunch of things around the house before Yom Kippur, this weekend! Hope that all is well with all of you! Have a great day! :)
 
Hey Everyone!

Just wanted to wish you all a great weekend! We have Yom Kippur tonight and tomorrow, so I probably won't be able to get back here for a few days. But just wanted to stop in and say "hi" to you all! :)
 
Lisa,
One of the many things I admire about the Jewish people is their traditions and close family ties. I know that all your hard work will be greatly appreciated. I just heard from Helene, the coincidences just get to be more and more as her daughter and family were at DW when we were last there. I am going to send her my diet recipe file and hope that she can find some help in there. My response to how I am feeling is that I am dead dog tired. When my breathing gets bad it wears me out. So much to do right now also. If I can make it until Monday I might survive. LOL

Colleen, sounds as if you are getting your house in liveable condition. I hope to be able to see it one of these days. Glad to hear that your parents made it home safely. I am sure you were worried.

Helenabear, I truly believe that the high cost of daycare has done more to keep down the amount of children people have today more than anything else. The birth control pill is the wonder drug of the century IMHO. I well remember my mom getting pregnant almost every three years, and there were plenty who did so more often, and what a strain it was on our family. Being the oldest I can feel that way though. (smile) It is dangerous for a woman to drop out of the workplace as she loses out on so much and puts herself in great risk, even if there is no divorce and if there is, whoa Nellie!

Caroline, I hope this thread can continue for another decade or more. I just have to find out what you end up being. I am always in awe of your many interests and accomplishments. GWTW is one of my favorite books also. Some dismiss it as light reading but there is a lot of historical information in there and I just plain love stories about strong women who survive against all odds. I hate those romance novels where the heroine gives up all to 'save' the man. Has been the downfall of many a young woman IMHO. So algebra is easy for you? I could "almost' hate you for that thought. I had to study long and hard to get good grades in math. Still hate it. Grandson called me up the other night with a math question and I told him that asking me such was not a wise idea. English, Literature, History, Social Studies etc. are my strong points. We always do well at things we enjoy. Politics as well? Which one did the best IYO?

SG/Linda
 
Seems like the Suite Ladies are happily distracted (for the most part) with celebrations and moving into new digs, settling into new school routines and all.

Thought I would stop by and sweep the cobwebs from the corners for when everyone is able to return.

Our family wedding went well. It was just perfect. I met so many special people and got caught up with others that I have not been able to see for a bit. Had many offers to sit at different tables (I left dh at a table with his brothers) but I guess you can guess who I decided to sit with. If I had not, they would have followed me anyway. LOL (my boys)

My sil, bil and nephew came back to spend the night and we were able to chat a bit. They stayed until after lunch the next day but left before the parade. Several people came by to watch with us though. One dear friend came with her granddaughter. I think I had told you all about her. Her daughter was very sick and still refusing to make peace with her. The daughter passed away the other day without any closure. I cannot imagine the mother's pain. To lose a child would be more than I could take let alone the rest.

My Disney nutty buddy and her hubby sat on the swing with me and we made plans for our upcoming trip. We will be sitting front and center at the Beach Boys concert on the 12th of October. She has even convinced me to give the Boardwalk/International gateway thing a try. Does not seem as it would be more walking and while I can walk I cannot stand for long periods and will avoid having to wait for several buses. If I were just trying to get away with something I would not but it is a physical fact for me so my conscience is pretty clean. Sitting on the Boardwalk at the end of a park day, snacking and taking in the scenery seems like a great way to end the day. I would be able to drive to all parks but MK that way.

Everyone always says how busy I am, LOL, I am sort of taking the day off today. Just puttering around and even watching a few tapes off and on. Khaos trivia tonight and leftovers for dinner, almost on vacation I am. (smile)

I hope that Angie is safe and sound, back at home and her home was intact and waiting to welcome them back home. My heart goes out to all who have been evacuated over and over again causing great damage to their bank accounts and strain to their dispositions. Surely this has to be the end of the turmoil in Florida? I am hesitant to voice that thought for fear of bringing down more wrath but am so hoping that things calm down for everyone. I am so grateful for my own good luck and am hoping that others so blessed will share, as I intend to do, a bit of their fortune with those less fortunate. Small acts of kindness are usually the best and they sure do add up when multiplied by millions.

Guess I will go back to laying on the couch, rotting my brain with some television. Please do not tell my little guy, would be a bad example.

SG/Linda
 
Hi all. Glad to hear things went well, Linda. And yesterday I was the recipient of a great card and postcards from Rider. I haven't been home to NJ in way too long, and she sent me a postcard that gave me such a lift! One was an aerial shot of the Point Pleasant Beach, NJ, boardwalk, one of my favorite places in the whole world. Lisa, thanks so much! Things have been stressful and your cards cheered me up. I haven'f forgoten to post a picture here, just can't sem to figure out how. I will probably add one to my website then post the link here when it's done.

Love to all, and Rider, thanks again. you are a doll!
 
Hello Everyone!

How are you feeling, Linda? It sounds like you're definitely in need of a little rest and relaxation! It's good that you took time the other day to just take it easy and watch some TV - you're on the move so much that sometimes a little mind-numbing TV watching is necessary! :) I didn't realize that your family wedding was this past weekend! Was this your nephew's wedding? Glad to hear that you all had a nice time and that you had a chance to catch up with some people whom you hadn't seen in awhile.

I am sorry to hear about your friend's daughter, though. It's so sad that they weren't able to make peace before she passed away. But it's nice that she is obviously close with her granddaughter and that she brought her to watch the parade and to be with you all.

I'm sure that Helene will be thrilled with all of the recipes that you send her - it's so nice of you to do that! I wish that I had saved all of your recipes online, but I printed them all out and bound them and only have a (relative) few on my hard drive! (Which may be a good thing because our hard drive seems to be running out of space very quickly.......we're going to need to expand our memory very soon.......it seems like overnight, our computer has slowed down significantly. :( )

Also, glad to hear that your plans for your upcoming (very soon! :) ) WDW trip are falling into place! That is so exciting! When are you actually leaving? I didn't realize that other friends were going down with you - are you all traveling together, or are you meeting down there? I'm sure that the Beach Boys concert will be great (I've seen them in concert a few times before)! And we walked from the World Showcase through the International Gateway and to the Boardwalk when we were down there in May - it was a nice walk - not too far - and it was neat to see Boardwalk - we'd never been there before!

Speaking of "Boardwalks", thanks so much for your kind words, Colleen! Glad that my correspondence brightened your day! :) But watch out - now that I have your home address, you're "in for it", now - just ask Linda, Elaine, and Angie...........you never know when you might open your mailbox to find some random Garden State-related memorabilia or souvenirs inside! :) Hope that your painting and carpeting went / are going wonderfully and that your unpacking is moving along smoothly, too!

Wish that I had some interesting news to report, but things are pretty quiet, here. Yom Kippur was pleasant and our "break-fast" (even though none of us fast) dinner went well, too. The remains of Jeanne have rolled in, today - just lots of rain and humidity, and they're predicting stronger winds followed by a cold front, tonight. I'm not ready for summer to end! :( I don't like the words "cold front", even if that just means temperatures in the low 70's and high 60's! :(

Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)
 
Howdy there Lisa!

Feeling a bit wonky today but nothing new. I have been hoarding my prednisone for the upcoming trip. We leave on the tenth. My friend is leaving this Sunday but they are going to Maryland first and then to their home near Ocala before going to DW for a few days. Had a small again today but am down 4 pounds for the month. Not new pounds so it is nothing special. Helene has not gotten back to me to tell me which recipes she wants. I will gladly send you my entire diet files anytime you want. Have you considered saving some of your pictures and such on disks to empty up some space? I am considering buying an external hard drive so that I can automatically keep a copy of everything. I might not have to buy a new computer as often then as the main reason I buy new every three years is to avoid losing everything. Does not always work that way though. I always have a book in my hand, whether the tv is running or not. Little on tv interests me enough to put a book down.

About how long did you take you to walk from the gateway to the Boardwalk parking lot when you went? I am guessing it is similar to the walk from Mexico to the bus stops and a whole lot less crowded. I would give almost anything if temps were in the 70's when we go to Florida.

Some interesting news. My dd told me that a few of their friends and themselves are possibly planning a 2006 trip to DW. What I would not give to be able to be there and have each boy to myself for a day or part of day. I am going to wait and see if she might welcome my intrusion. I can pay my own way and do not want to stay with them so I am hoping it might happen. Will see. I know that the boys would love it as they talk about it all the time.

How did your celebrations go? Were there a lot of guests or just your immediate family? Are there foods that you only have at this time of the year? What is the best part for you?

I am calling all Suite Mates to help me out. My 13 year old grandson has informed me that he is hunting for a girlfriend and possible future mate that does not require much as he does not plan on being able to earn much and likes being able to not work hard. (I am soooo proud, sigh) I figure that an anorexic nudist who prefers to camp out would do just fine. If he does not have to provide food, clothing or shelter there is not much left to worry about. I dislike women who constantly badger their hubby or wh omever to provide massive quantities of material goods while doing little or nothing themselves but this seems to be the other extreme. I am saying prayers that he falls madly in love with a woman who will stand side by side and force him to do something of value with his life. I may buy the bride a big club to use if necessary. (smile)

Colleen, I know how you feel as I have gotten many of those famous postcards as well. I am always honored, awed and deeply ashamed that I cannot repay such kindness. Indiana is a great place to live but too darned exciting. I am considering hijacking the checkered flag from the next 500 mile race. I know that Fran would appreciate that.

SG/Linda
 
Hello everyone! Been a bit busy with work and stuff at home, but nothing too bad or too pressing. Life, otherwise, has been fairly good :)

Colleen, I knew of some people in Pittsburgh who also had the bad flooding like that. Seems Ivan reaked havoc there as well. Good luck with all the unpacking and cleaning though. That is always the hardest part of moving I think.

Lisa, it just is busy for no real reason lately. We dont' usually have much of a "season" for busy or not. Well around the national holidays, it gets that way since a lot of the companies we work with have time off then.

Linda, I chuckled a little at your comment about the costs of children... but I realize in this day it is so very true. The more reliable b/c out there really helps many families (IMO). I knew of a lady who had about 9 or 10 children... we swore she was always pregnant or holding a newborn. I couldn't imagine that. So far, all the children have made it to or through college!!! How they can do that, I am not sure!
I saw your post about your small "dilemma" I wish I had some solid advice. I do know that if you offered to go to watch the kids a day or two, I'd be thrilled... actually I truly believe WDW is a place to share with loved ones (whether family or friends) so I am always happy to share time with others while there :)
 
Hi girls. All is well here. Same old same old, unpacking and more unpacking.


My Mom told me yesterday that she had a long talk with her friend Marion, who worked with Mom for years. Marion sold her Jersey home for about a gazillion dollars -- she lived near Lambertville and I guess that area is very expensive now. In any case, she took her pile of money and she and hubby retired in a gated community in Ocala, Florida. Mom got the whole scoop, and thank goodness Marion LOVES it there. They actually saw very little trouble from any of the hurricanes, and loves the area completely. She told Mom there are zillions of retirement communities and you pretty much just need to visit and pick one that suits you. She even mentioned a new community that is being built, closer to Orlando, "Celebration-like" with it's own shopping and hospital. My Mom is kind of a hypochondriac so I know "your own hospital" was probably magic to her ears! :) In any case, I am thrilled that my parents are starting to seriously consider retiring in Florida. The winters in PA are getting nastier and my Dad is realizing his body won't let him do physical work forever. They have enough money to retire comfortably and I am now officially nagging them! We are used to living apart -- it's not like they'd be leaving the grandkids to go to Florida, which is such a dilemma for so many grandparents. We'd just drive south instead of east! The thought of them living an hour from Orlando is SO exciting. We'd have Xmas there and Spring Break and spend time in the summers. The thought of being able to just go for a meal and spend an evening at WDW sounds so amazing. Mom and I get excited every time we talk about it! So all of you cross your fingers that it works out, and our chances of meeting at WDW will get better because I will be down there MORE OFTEN!

Lisa, I am glad your family holiday went well. I am terrible about keeping holdiays straight, and what they mean, but I think at this time of year you are supposed to atone? It made me smile to realize that you are so dear I can't imagine you having to atone for anything! One of my favorite holiday jokes involves the hiring of a new priest from a field of terrible applicants who don't even know what the Christian holidays represent. One applicant finally gets it right and knows that Christmas is the birth of Jesus. When asked for more info, though, the applicant adds "And if Jesus sees his shadow there will be six more weeks of winter!" That one always makes me laugh! :) Somehow the combination of Jesus and the groundhog always get me giggling and I am quite sure this is directly related to my disastrous term as a Catholic!

Linda, I am also going to offer unsolicited advice about the grandkids' Florida trip. This is no time to be subtle. Sell your daughter on your value as a babysitter and tourguide and see if it works. She'd be crazy to turn down the help of a grandma who knows her way around WDW. The worst she can do is say NO, at which point you can decide if you want to go down anyhow. It IS a public place! Also, the walk from Boardwalk or Beach Club to the International Gateway is under 10 minutes. There are benches to rest and bathrooms at the Gateway. Once through the gate it's a bit further to the back of England. The walk is a pretty one and again, lots of benches to rest on.

Better get cracking on today's errands and efforts. Love to all.

xoxo
 
Hello!

I agree with Colleen and Elaine, Linda - I think that you should definitely start encouraging Jackie to let you tag along if they go to WDW in '06! In addition to "selling" your "grandma-tour-guide / babysitter" skills, you could package it as a "Magical Gathering" and maybe wind up actually reserving the trip as a package for the whole family, that might even yield some good discounts, too! It would be so great if you could all go down there together! Or maybe you and Tom could surprise them, the way that Colleen's Dad surprised her family at the Poly! :) I hope that that works out for all of you - I'm sure that you would all have a great time down there together!

And it would be wonderful if your parents decided to retire in Florida, Colleen! Hurricanes notwithstanding (heck, they're not too much different from the nor'easters that we get here, so it wouldn't be that different!), I'm sure that they would feel much more comfortable down there, not having to deal with the nasty winters, and being able to enjoy the sunshine and outdoors all year long! And it would provide lots of great excuses for you all to go down there and visit, as you said! I hope that that works out for them! As you said, I've read about many great new retirement communities that are being established, down there!

I loved your joke about the Priest and seeing Jesus's shadow! That was very cute! :) You're right - this past holiday that we just celebrated, Yom Kippur, is The Day of Atonement (that's what "Yom Kippur" means in Hebrew). It always immediately follows Rosh Hashana, which was the week before. Rosh Hashana (literally translated from Hebrew: "Head of the Year") marks the New Year on the Jewish calendar (which is a lunar calendar). On Rosh Hashana we celebrate the New Year and start to reflect on the past year, how we conduct our lives, etc. There are no real traditional foods associated with the holiday, Linda, with the exception of sweet things - particularly apples dipped in honey - to signify wishing everyone a "sweet New Year". We go to synagogue on Rosh Hashana for a special service that includes a reading from the Torah (the Old Testament) and listening to someone blow the shofar (a ram's horn) which heralds the coming of the New Year. It is said that on Rosh Hashana, God opens the Book of Life and reviews how everyone has conducted their lives over the past year. The week in between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur is called "The Days of Awe". During that time, we're supposed to reflect and think about things that we did wrong, over the past year, and how we can be better in the upcoming year. On Yom Kippur, we attend synagogue and atone for our sins of the past year in the hopes of "wiping the slate clean". It's said that on Yom Kippur, God inscribes those who will live for the next year in the Book of Life and then closes the Book: "On Rosh Hashana it is written, on Yom Kippur it is sealed". So some people greet eachother at this time of year with "May you be inscribed for a good and healthy year", or something like that. Yom Kippur is traditionally a fast day - one must completely fast (not even any water!) from sundown the night before 'til sundown the night of the holiday. My family never really did that, though I did when I was a child and attending religious school. My theory is that one doesn't need to fast in order to meditate upon their lives and what they want to do better - the fasting is just symbolic of taking something away so that one can concentrate on atoning for their sins, etc. I've found that fasting only makes me think "gee, I'd really like to have a Diet Coke!", rather than what I'm supposed to be thinking about, so I don't do it any more! But we still have a traditional "break-fast" dinner on the night of Yom Kippur, even though none of us actually fast! That dinner is traditionally light foods, since it's assumed that this is the first meal that one is eating in 24 hours. So we have bagels, lox, whitefish, tuna salad, etc. And we just had my immediate family over, Linda, since all of our cousins live so far away. It was just Frank, my father, my uncle, and me for both holidays, and my sister-in-law came on Rosh Hashana, too. I think that the best part for me was just having everyone together............and eating lots of great food! :) Also, it's fun using our dining room, which we only really use when we entertain. My favorite of the Jewish holidays has always been Passover, because it falls in the spring (with hopes of summer and nice weather to follow!) and because of the traditional foods and customs that go along with that holiday and the customary things that we do at the meals ("seders").

There are actually 2 more Jewish holidays that immediately follow Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur. We don't really observe them, but I'm very familiar with them from religious school and there are special synagogue services that honor them. They sort of continue the story of Passover (which we're all familiar with from our various religious schools.........or from watching the movie "The Ten Commandments!"). After the Children of Israel were freed from slavery by the Egyptians (Passover), they wandered through the desert for 40 years. During that time, they built little temporary huts to stay in, that had thatched roofs so that they could see the stars through them. At this time of year, very observant Jewish people commemorate that time by building little huts behind their homes and eating all their meals in them (some people even sleep in them, if the weather permits!). The holiday is called "Sukkot" (literal translation: "tabernacles" - "Sukkot" is the plural of "sukkah", or "tabernacle"). It's neat - when I was in religious school, we would walk from the school to local classmates' homes and eat in their family's sukkot. They are usually decorated with artificial fruit hanging from the bamboo roof, to symbolize the fall harvest. And every family decorates their sukkah with something that is personal to them. It's sort of like a little "clubhouse" with a table and chairs inside. 2 of my father's observant neighbors have invited him to have dinner in their sukkot, over the next 2 nights, which is very nice (I just hope that the post-Jeanne-wind dies down before tonight, or else they'll be having a very windy dinner!)

Sukkot lasts until October 8th. Then immediately after that comes the last holiday of the season, "Simchat Torah" (literal translation: "Happiness about the Torah"). After the children of Israel wandered in the desert for 40 years with Moses as their leader, they proved that they were devoted to God, would not worship idols, and would accept God's laws (the 10 Commandments) and honor them. So then God bestowed upon them the Torah (which is the Old Testament - which obviously had not fully been written at the time - so I interpret it as God gave them the 10 Commandments at that time), and the people rejoiced. This holiday is celebrated by going to synagogue, and then after the service the streets around temples are usually closed off, and the Rabbi's take the actual Torah scrolls out into the street and everyone dances outside and rejoices and holds up the Torah, etc. (They have to be very careful, though, because if one drops a Torah scroll, the custom is that s/he has to fast for 40 days!) It's a very nice holiday, but it's one that's usually observed by more observant people than we.

OK - now that I've bored you all to death with the "Jewish Fall Holiday Lesson"...............! Hope that I didn't ramble on for too long!

ANYWAY...........so your grandson is thinking about marriage at 13, Linda?? Very advanced fellow! :) I'm sure that he will follow the great examples set by you and Tom and his parents and that he has wonderful values and priorities. He'll just grow into his responsibilities, that's all! He's coming into that crazy adolescent age, which always tends to be a bit turbulent, but I'm sure that he'll come out of it with a great sense of direction and purpose! :)

I can't believe that your trip is coming up so soon!!! Just a little over a week away!!!! I was watching some of the video footage from our last trip, last night............we have just 7.5 more months to go, until we return to WDW / DCL! :)

Thank you both for your kind words! I just like to send little things that I think you may find amusing or sentimental, to let you know that I am thinking of you, every now and again! :) And I'm sure that Indiana is a very exciting and beautiful place! :)

Hi Elaine! How are you, Luis, and the kitties doing, out there?

I think that you're right, Linda - an external drive might be the way to go. We actually have 2 hard drives in our computer, now. I moved most of my pictures onto the "secondary" one..........and now I can't access it at all! UGH. I do have many of the pictures saved on CD (I've been too lazy to do a "back up" recently - plus, for some reason, our CD writer tends to stop in the middle of saving pictures, claiming that it doesn't "recognize" some of them as valid files, so then I wind up having to save some individually, which takes forever............). Anyway, I think that our problem is that Windows and Verizon keep sending us updates that eat up our memory when we download them. It seems like overnight, our computer got much slower and all of a sudden we barely have any memory! As soon as we have this memory issue rectified, I will bother you for your entire recipe file! :)

OK, now that I've probably completely put everyone here to sleep........time to go and get some things done, around here! Hope that all is well with all of you and hope that you're having a nice day! :)
 
Dear Lisa, I concur with Colleen in that I cannot imagine you having a thing to atone for. I love the idea that you have to yearly account for yourself. The Christian view that you account at the end of your life might make many put off cleaning up their act. Sort of like waiting to weigh in once a year or decade would allow you to put off eating right until it is far too late. Hope I did not offend anyone with the analogy. I just think differently. Everyday, for me, seems to be a maze of difficult decisions and laying awake at night fretting over what I did not do or did and regret. I am much more forgiving of others though. I am going to 'save' your missive as I am sure I will want to reference it from time to time.. I have read quite a bit about your religion in years past but it is better to hear from someone who lives it. I seem to remember that my old Commadore 64 had a floppy and you automatically backed up everything, I do not understand why it could not be so with current computers, seems simple to me.

Colleen, you and I seem to have the same warped sense of humor. I love the groundhog joke as well. I firmly believe that God has a sense of humor (figured that one out while looking in the mirror once LOL) Thank you so much for the info on t he walk between Gateway and Might it be The Villages that your mom's friend moved to? If so, it is an awesome place and my friends are headed down to their home this weekend before they meet us at DW. There is a weekly plan where you can go and check it out. It is for the people who yearn for perfection and was built by people who did DW and Universal. All sorts of price ranges also. It is pretty close (about an hour or so) from DW. Don't unpack too fast, you will find a lot of 'stuff' that you do not really need and will grealy cut down on future house cleanings. I am giving up dusting for Lent and any other holiday that I can think of. Waste of time, it keeps coming back.. LOL

Elaine, I will take advice from you any old time. My dd is a bit unusual. We were very close when she was small but about the time she turned ten she decided that she had no use for me at all, nor for most other people either. It did not help matters that she was involved in many scary situations and I was forced to keep an extremely close eye on her during her teens. Having to choose between being her friend or her parent was a hard one but I still believe I chose the right course in forcing her to get back on track. I never throw any of her past back at her as she has outgrown such and I am extremely proud of her but she has never forgiven me for being so strict with her. If I even requested a TY from her for some of the things I do for her she would never 'allow' me to do anything again and it would be sorely hard on the boys (and I feel her also).

Lord help me if I would turn up uninvited. My dd and her family are planning a trip with some other couples that they are close to here. Several of the couples are friends of mine also as they have either grown up in my house as kids or I have tutored their children. One young woman in particular would welcome me but would cringe if her mother wanted to come. LOL I fully respect that they would not want me tagging along nor would I want to. I move too slowly and would hold them back and would not do that to anyone let alone my loved ones. Austin is already asking me if he could ride down in the car as he is afraid of flying. I told him that I had not been invited and he was adamant that he wants me to come along. I figure the sil would enjoy it also since it would give them some alone time as well so it is just my dd. Maybe I am too thin skinned but I could not go if I did not feel she wanted me to come. They would probably only be able to afford a few days and my sharing the boys might cut deeply into that time. I would love to be able to have a grandson, one at a time, for a few hours or a day to show them things that their parents might not have the time or money to do with them. We are not wealthy enough to be able to afford to pay for everyone so that option is out. I wish it were true that our grands would be able to learn from our good examples in marriage or in life but unless they learn from mistakes they are doomed to continue our families less than perfect record. I enjoy reading about how you all got good educations and are living lives full of promise and with options but it is not so for many.

I am not in great health and will never be able to drive down with my grands for a vacation alone nor would I be able to physically care for them in the parks for more than a few hours. I look a lot sturdy than I actually am. Not even sure if I will be in any shape, healthwise, in 2006 to go to DW even if wanted. With my family history I well know that the heart attacks and strokes are looming on the horizon. I am doing my best to put them off as long as possible though.

Elaine, you youngsters have no idea of what life was back before birth control. I saw so many women being worn out in their youth and families brought to their knees with poverty. My mom died in her early fifties and having a baby every three years was not helpful. Having those kids grow up and lay around doing nothing while she did it all was not a help either. Sometimes I believe she sort of committed suicide to get some rest. (not kidding) I love the fact that your generation can choose when to have and how many to have, children. Every child has the right to be a wanted member of a family. Sounds as if your friend's family was blessed with love, ambition and ethics that made them thrive. Good for them!!

Here I am, writing a book again. TY for putting up with me.

I am taking Tom and I to get our flu shots tomorrow before we leaver for FL. Then to the dump as I cut back the flowers today then drop him off at bowling while I get some chores done. I finally qualified for the quarterly trivia game so I have to be back for that. Going to the Community Center in a bit and that is all that is going on around here. Looking forward to the red and purple signs, taking some Calgon and taking a rest when I hit the room. LOL

SG/Linda
 
Lisa, I will re-read your wonderful primer on Jewish fall holidays. Thaks for the scoop. I hate how ignorant I am of other religions. I took a great course in college but somehow the info fell out of my head. Most of what I recall is the Buddhism, go figure. I am impressed with your knowledge of the holidays and when you have time one day, please share what religious school was like. I can only imagine. When I was a kid, Catholic School was sort of a vague threat (like "military school") where you'd go if you were very, very bad. My Dad had been terrorized by nuns as a kid (so many Catholic children were, evidently) and always told us horror stories. I feared nuns more than anything! Luckily by the 1970's there were few of them left, or perhaps someone wised up and started keeping them away from the kids!

Oh, I forgot to tell you... When I visited dear David years ago, when he was in medical school, I remember when we got to his apartment there was a little thing on the door. He explained it as a "good luck good health" thing, and I have since learned it is called a Mezuzah. It occured to me we should have one in our new house. It will make the house seem nice and safe and remind me of David. Now here in Indiana we are not chock-full of Jewish friends "on call" to let one know where to GET a Mezuzah... So Scott works with a nice gentleman (from NJ, of course) who is of the Jewish faith. Mark was surprised that I was wanting a mezuzah, but kindly offered to get us one soon. He says they should be gifts... So when I get one, I guess I will stick it on the front door frame and hope it brings good luck and health. Any info would be appreciated. I am still convinced St. Joseph might have sold my house for me... So maybe I am getting religion -- although who knows what one? - in my middle age!

Linda, I will pray for your good health and your daughter's good sense, and somehow you may wind up in WDW with your grandkids. Not sure of the name of the community Mom's friend lives in, but I will find out. Small world!

xoxo
 
Hi Everyone!

Hi Linda and Colleen! You both are way too sweet - BELIEVE ME, I have things to "atone for"! Although I (hopefully!) do not do things that hurt people unintentionally, I certainly do think "evil" thoughts in my head - particularly about people who have hurt me in the past, both professionally or personally. I feel badly when I hold grudges - so that's one of the things that I "atone for" or try to improve upon. As they always say (whoever "they" are!), "it takes more energy to hate someone than to not think about them at all"!

I definitely understand your predicament, with regard to the prospective WDW trip in 2006. Hmmmmm...........maybe you can wait for a time when you think that your DD and DSIL would be most likely to say "yes" and then spring your request to join them, on them? :) I understand now why you wouldn't want to just show up as a surprise (though I'm sure that Dalton and Austin would be thrilled to see you and Tom, as a surprise!). You never know - 2006 is still a ways away..........you might be pleasantly surprised by the response that you get if / when you ask / hint / otherwise that you'd like to join in their trip! Do you know - are they getting ready to make their reservations, now? Or are they just in the "preliminary planning stages"? If they're not ready to actually commit to dates now (I think it may be too soon to do so, anyway), then you definitely have time to "hone your strategy"! We, here in the Suite, will see if we can come up with some more creative ideas for you, in the mean time! :) AND, in the mean time, you must concentrate on YOUR OWN upcoming trip - just 10 days away! :)

So glad that I didn't bore you both to sleep, with my little explanations, yesterday!

From Kindgergarten through 8th grade, I went to a Hebrew Day School, called a "Yeshiva". It's probably very similar to what Catholic School is like..........minus the nuns! :) (Frank went to Catholic School for all of elementary school, so I'm definitely familiar with frightening nun stories, from his experiences! :) ) My family is not as observant as most of the other families who sent their children to this school. But it was very close to our house and my parents didn't like the public schools in our area. Plus they wanted me to get a Jewish education anyway, so they sent me to Yeshiva until high school. We had half a day of religious subjects (taught almost entirely in Hebrew, mind you!) - Torah (the Old Testament portion of the week), Prophets, Jewish History, interpretations of the Old Testament, etc., and we had mandatory prayer services first thing, every morning. The second half of the day was devoted to all of our "secular" subjects - English, History / Social Studies, Science, and Math (UGH.). My mother always blamed my intimidation by algebra, etc., on the fact that she felt that not enough time was devoted to it when I was first learning it, since we only had a half day of secular subjects per day in my elementary school. Even though I (and the people whom I was closest with - who are still some of my closest friends) was different from most of my classmates, in that my family didn't keep kosher, observe the Sabbath, or observe all of the holidays, it was still a great experience and I learned many valuable things there.

We have several Mezzuzot (plural of "mezzuzah") in our house, Colleen! We have some really neat ones that friends or family have brought back for us from Israel, too! In traditional mezzuzot, there is a tiny prayer scroll inside, which contains the prayer "Hear O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One" (nothing I believe that would go against your religion or offend you in any way - it comes directly from the Old Testament). It is traditional to have one on the door post of every room in one's home - but particularly the doorways that lead outside (we don't have them on every door post!). And it should be hung on a slant, with the top of the mezzuzah pointing into the room (as opposed to away from it), to sort of bring good luck / good health / good things inside that room. The tradition of the mezzuzah also has its origins in the Passover story (the good old "Ten Commandments" film, again!). When God sent the Angel of Death to the Egyptians, because the Pharoah was so evil and because they refused to believe in God, the Children of Israel were instructed to stay in their homes and put lamb's blood around their door posts. That way, the Angel of Death would PASS OVER their homes (hence, the name of the holiday!) and they wouldn't be subjected to the 10 plagues that were brought upon the Egyptians. The mezzuzah is also a marker / reminder of that time, and so it sort of "guards" the house and keeps good things inside. And the prayer inside confirms that we acknowledge God as the one, true God.

OK - forgive me - I'm rambling on and boring everyone, again! :(

Sorry that this can't be longer, but A) I have nothing very interesting to report - today was a pretty quiet day and B) the debate is starting soon and I've been dying to see the debates! So curious to hear what the candidates will say and how they will interact with one another!

Hope that all is well with all of you and hope that you're all having a good night! Thanks so much again for all of your thoughtfulness! :)
 












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