ever get the feeling

[Darth Sidious]

that your not wanted? like... you will be with a group of people but you are left out? or your online and no one is talking to u? or you were talking to people but they just suddenly stop? i feel like that alot... right now would be one of those times.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

Totally, only natural. People are afraid of change and anything that may lower their popularity.

 

[Darth Sidious]

i had a low popularity to begin with. haha, im really hard on myself. something my friends say is the worst thing about me

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

i had a low popularity to begin with. haha, im really hard on myself. something my friends say is the worst thing about me

I know how you feel, I was raised to be very hard on myself and think nothing I did was good enough. That's how my dad was raised so he reaches higher then he ever could think and more. I've never kept a friend more then a year and a half.

 

[Sparx]

yeah. but I'm just horribly paranoid.

 

[Darth Sidious]

im paranoid also especailly with new people. i always get the feeling that if i go up to some random person and say hi, they have to talk to me even if they don't want to. and i don't want to put that feeling into anyones head or anything.

 

[Sparx]

im paranoid also especailly with new people. i always get the feeling that if i go up to some random person and say hi, they have to talk to me even if they don't want to. and i don't want to put that feeling into anyones head or anything.

I say hi to people I don't know. Thats just who I am. But I HATE to start convos with people online. I always feel like I'm bothering them.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

I'm a little paranoid..mostly my A.D.D. my thoughts are going all over the place and I get hard on myself for not concentrating on the thing I'm doing.

 

[laurengrant4]

Me, personally, I am a very shy person and when people talk to me online I always get nervous and read over what I am going to say to them before I send it. Don't worry about being self concious because everyone feels it sometimes.

We know how ya feel

 

[goofy123]

I'm not a shy person and I always talk to new people.. but I act more myself with my really good friends than with my not as good friends.

Do any of you act different with different people?

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

I believe people act different with others because of fear of being rejected. They are afraid of looking or acting stupid. You should not act different around different people, it's showing its not you so you're being fake.

 

[MuNkY]

I hate when I want to talk, and nobody else does.
I hate when I'm around a group of "friends", and they just kind of form a circle that your not apart of.
I hate when you don't want to talk, and yet people make a point of keep trying to talk to you.
I hate when your in a bad mood, and nobody notices.
I hate when your trying to do something else, and everybody keeps trying to get you to do something else.

Come to think of it, sometimes its just best to be left alone.

 

[goofy123]

I believe people act different with others because of fear of being rejected. They are afraid of looking or acting stupid. You should not act different around different people, it's showing its not you so you're being fake.

I don't really act more like the people I'm with, I kind of act more calm and not as loud.

 

[goofy123]

I hate when you don't want to talk, and yet people make a point of keep trying to talk to you.
I hate when your in a bad mood, and nobody notices.

I definetly agree with you. Sometimes you just feel like being left alone and people still try to talk to you.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

I will be the first to admit the only friends I have are my family and fellow DIS boarders, I gave up friends since they treated me so badly like I did not have feelings.

 

[Sparx]

Come to think of it, sometimes its just best to be left alone.

ITA.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

quite right, quite right.