*sigh* I have a little over $1k saved right now. And it's not because I'm undisciplined, or irresponsible, or don't care, or that I'm not thinking of the future and my retirement. Believe it or not, I can't afford to save very much at all! *GASP* Who'd'a thunk it? I really get resentful when I get crap for not having a big ol' nest egg building in my bank account, when these people are not me and don't know what my life is like. I know this is sort of off-topic, but I started reading this thread and heard several people talking about how they were responsible or disciplined enough to save money for retirement. Believe me, if I was able to I'd be ECSTATIC to be able to save for retirement! More than ecstatic, I'd be crowing about it too! But the cold, hard facts are, I can't. We spent almost a thousand dollars yesterday on car repairs, just so that we could get it to last a bit longer and not have another car payment or higher insurance rates... and until my husband graduates, I don't see it improving, which will be several years yet. (I suppose someone's going to mention that I have internet service I don't need and could save that, welp, sorry, I'm at work; don't think they'd appreciate that!

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Okay, I'm done ranting. Sorry, I'm not meaning to offend anyone, just giving my own personal frustrations a vent.

*stepping off soapbox*
Macfamily,
I, for one, don't begrudge anyone spending the money (or forgoing income) in order to further education or otherwise better themselves. I would agree with Ducklite's post just after yours.
My problem when it comes to retirement savings, are the people who are my peers, both in education and professional experience, who saved NOTHING during the mid- to late-nineties. I'm talking about young, professional couples who were married, and both working with no children and who were spending EVERY CENT of good professional salaries without putting anything in 401K plans that were offered by our company (my wife and I both worked for a small IT consulting company when the tech boom was, well, booming and we did very well at the time).
Meanwhile, we were spending plenty of money, but at the same time we started out with a few percent going into the 401K, and each year when it was time for a review and raise, another 1 or 2 % would go to the 401K. In fact, we just did it again twice this year, when my wife received her first significant raises in the last few years.
We lived in far smaller houses than the mortgage formulas said we could afford - staying in townhouses until 3 years ago when we had a second child on the way and wanted the room for her and for the girls to play in the yard. Other friends of ours were buying single family, 4 and 5 bedroom homes for the two of them and driving new BMWs and Geep Grand Cherokees every 2 or 3 years.
I don't begrudge anyone spending their money in any way they see fit (heaven knows I still spend too much on tech gadgets, movies and music), but take care of the future first.
To bring this rant back around to the topic of Social Security...
I have always seen Social Security as a social contract that was supposed to be helping keep society together. In short it was as if we were saying "I'll support the retirees today with money from my paycheck and in return, I expect to be supported tomorrow in my retirement by the workers then."
I don't know which is the chicken and which is the egg, but far too many GenXers (and baby boomers before them) seem to have the attitude that "If Social Security isn't going to be there in the future, then the hell with it, I'm not going to be concerned about it either."
To me that makes no sense. I'd like to say that part of the problem was how much later many professional GenXers were in starting their families, but I don't fit that mold either. I didn't have my first child until I was 32, but I started savings seriously for retirement at the age of 23.
Okay, my rant is done (for now).
Ted