JandD Mom,
Perhaps you are confusing authorized drivers and free authorized drivers.
According to my contract, " a member of my immediate family who permanently lives with me: or a business partner, employer or regular employee who drives the Vehicle for business purposes" are the only authorized drivers.
The national sites adds this: Authorized Drivers
Free (in the United States and Canada) An Emerald Club member, business partner, employer, or fellow associate who drives the car for business purposes.
All other additional authorized driver situations are subject to a daily charge.
Additional Authorized Drivers
All additional drivers must meet ALL rental qualifications in regard to age, credit card, and driving record as well as all other standard rental qualifications.
Must appear at the rental counter with the primary renter.
Must present a valid driver's license.
Must sign the rental agreement.
Must present an acceptable credit card in his/her own name.
The way I read this is: They are free if they are part of the business or a relative with an emerald card. If the relative does not have a EC, they can drive, but, must pay.
I don't think you have much of an arguement as the contract says nothing about spouses or family members being free from an extra driver charge.
As to being sloppy, I must respectfully disagree.
As to being "pretty sure" from another post, some people in some areas of the country speak like this, it means yes, you can. If you want a more salient answer, call again. I did call, asked the same question and stated that the spouse was an EC member, they said no charge, I asked what would happen if the spouse was not an EC member, they said, there would be a charge. Why don't I have problems getting an answer?