
Thanks for the replies guys. Sorry for asking what was I'm sure is a question that has been asked and answered thousands of times. I've been wading my way through the disABILITIES faq (and related links/threads) and to say it's a bit overwhelming is an understatement for sure.

I've spent more time on this laptop in the last week than the last 2 months BECAUSE I really want to believe we can do this.
I have to admit, the idea of doing the entire trip with an
ECV is concerning to me. I mean it's not about handling it, but more about the fact that I'm trying to plan my very first trip *knowing* I just
can notdo it any other way.

After the 'quickie' 2 night trip in 05 with the ECV I knew then we wouldn't be able to go back without one. Even though my Dr's had considered me disabled, since Nov 02, it was something that I was fighting, going to doctors and specialists all over trying to 'fix' degenerative disc disease. I would not accept being disabled. Was different when I was moving around better, figuring after this procedure and that, I'd get to a point where it was managable and things would go back to normal. Wrong!
My stubborness didn't help as it (my back) kept getting worse, and what was a blue parking pass, 10 years ago, is a way of life now. My DW (and best friend) for instance kept pushing me to admit I was legally disabled (which meant filing for it) and I kept just wanting it to go away.

Should have listened to her, but ya'll know how we get.
However, when in pain energy is used up much faster than in normal conditions. If you become exhausted, with by what you have done or, more importantly, what you have done while in pain your system will not recharge to the original energy level overnight and you are starting the next day with a lower amount of energy available.
True VERY true indeed. I find myself pushing to do more than I should if for no other reason than I don't want to ask anyone for help or even
pretend that I would. DW at times seems more to tolerate what's going on than actually understand it. (She's a positive mindset person however, in that if you don't think about bad stuff, then bad stuff doesn't exist. Gotta' luv' her for it though.)
The pain/energy threshold is the most frustrating and least predictable part of it all however. It's like one day you get a slow start then feel just fine, the next it kills ya' to stay in bed for more than a few hours and day three you don't care if you EVER get out of bed. Ahhhhhhh well, off to grab the ol' ice pack and catch up on some more faq's.
