Easing DH into DLR

[zanzibar138]

I also had a reluctant DH. His parents are a little alternative and have grudges against most large companies, especially those which are not Australian owned (we live in Australia). They did not have a TV when he was a young child, and when they got one, the kids were only allowed to watch the news, documentaries, and alternative movies (mostly with subtitles), so he never really got the Disney experience.

Fast forward to us meeting and me having an all-consuming goal of visiting Disneyland. We finally saved up and went together, despite him not being at all interested and wanting to go to Europe instead. He only came along because he knew how important it was to me He ended up having a great time! He was so impressed at the Disney details, and how professional their shows are. He has even suggested including Disney parks around the world into our travels, and has since visited HKDL twice. He still hasn't been to Europe, but was keen on going back to the US with me this year and visiting DLR again. So, it can be done

With my DH, he doesn't want to be involved in the planning. I check with him before booking anything of course, but he doesn't want to know about park schedules and when we'll get which FPs etc. So I try not to get into too much detail for him (which is hard when it's so exciting ). Also, I find that a more relaxed approach to touring suits him better. I'll set a couple of goals for the day, but apart from that, we'll just do whatever we feel like at the time. If I want an early morning one day, I'll give him the option to come with me or meet me later. Also, he doesn't function until he's had breakfast, so that is always our first stop.

I think the key is figuring out what works for your DH's personality, and touring in a way that suits him. In a busy season, that might not mean you get to do everything, but if you go every year that might not be such a big issue. If you can get him hooked this first trip, then you'll be able to introduce more commando style touring options as you go

 

[ktlm]

I'm sure DH will appreciate the beer/pretzel cart, although I have to admit that I've never even seen it! What is it near? !!!

It is on Pacific Wharf at the back near the entrance to Carsland, on the side down past cocina cucamonga. Look for the blue truck- it is the Karl Strauss beer truck. DH gets the beer, and I get the Mickey head pretzel. DH says it is really good and he is a bit of a beer snob.

 

[zanzibar138]

It is on Pacific Wharf at the back near the entrance to Carsland, on the side down past cocina cucamonga. Look for the blue truck- it is the Karl Strauss beer truck. DH gets the beer, and I get the Mickey head pretzel. DH says it is really good and he is a bit of a beer snob.

Oh yeah! My DH enjoyed that truck too, and he is also a beer snob

 

[twinky]

He only came along because he knew how important it was to me

The best reason!

He was so impressed at the Disney details, and how professional their shows are. He has even suggested including Disney parks around the world into our travels, and has since visited HKDL twice. He still hasn't been to Europe, but was keen on going back to the US with me this year and visiting DLR again. So, it can be done

I know I'm biased, but I do wonder how someone could NOT appreciate the creativity/imagineering and detail evident throughout the Disney parks. I'm glad your DH felt the magic!

With my DH, he doesn't want to be involved in the planning. I check with him before booking anything of course, but he doesn't want to know about park schedules and when we'll get which FPs etc. So I try not to get into too much detail for him (which is hard when it's so exciting ).

Yes, I know it's hard not to share all of the details you've worked so hard to plan, and I will have to refrain as well! Thankfully, my mom will happily share in talk of FPs, ADRs, etc.

Also, I find that a more relaxed approach to touring suits him better. I'll set a couple of goals for the day, but apart from that, we'll just do whatever we feel like at the time. If I want an early morning one day, I'll give him the option to come with me or meet me later. Also, he doesn't function until he's had breakfast, so that is always our first stop.

I would do well to follow your lead!The last thing I want to do is force him TO HAVE FUN! I just want to follow an approach that allows me to share what I find special about DLR without overwhelming him in the experience.

If you can get him hooked this first trip, then you'll be able to introduce more commando style touring options as you go

Here's hoping!!

Thanks, zanzibar138 for your thoughtful suggestions!

 

[twinky]

It is on Pacific Wharf at the back near the entrance to Carsland, on the side down past cocina cucamonga. Look for the blue truck- it is the Karl Strauss beer truck. DH gets the beer, and I get the Mickey head pretzel. DH says it is really good and he is a bit of a beer snob.

It's officially in the (loose, flexible) plan. Thanks!