We always go to MK first, no matter what crowd calendars say. For this coming year especially (thanks SWGE) I don't think any crowd calendar you find will be anywhere close to accurate. The park hours also for November will be interesting to see since Disney decided to sprinkle some pixie dust for EEMH. Since that ends the beginning of November (for now), I'm curious to see if they extend that further into Nov-Dec. I'm hoping so since our trip is 11/9-11/17.
I just had to make our ADR's on Monday, and this is how I decided to which park/day: First day always MK, then after that I generally know that we only spend 1 day at AK, HS and Epcot and we always end our trip with several days in MK, so I laid out our week according to that.
Hope that helps!