Okay, minivan lover here. We have a 2013 Sienna and she drives like a champ. The middle row seats slide (very important to us as parents are tall and even as babies they were tall!) We can take our middle seats out and fold down the third row and the Sienna hauls more than most trucks. After my in-laws died, we were tasked with emptying out their house after the estate sale to do a bunch of dumpster runs, and we loaded that sucker up with 60 years of crap and tchotchkes -- but that's another story. When we drive to the airport with my sister, BIL, and niece and all our luggage for the week, it all fits. There's cupholders EVERYWHERE for bottles and sippy cups and Stanleys and coffee. The new Siennas are hybrids and get like 40 mpg, too.
Would you consider Riviera resale for a 2B every trip? Hear me out. The Skyliner works great with tandem double strollers and gets you access to two parks. The hallways and foyer are roomy for maneuverability. The resort has lots of food options on site, under cover from the elements, so you're not schlepping shopping bags of food on top of strollers and crying, whining kids. Riviera rents well if you ever decided to take the cash and try somewhere else, or you could bide your time until you could buy a direct contract ten years or so from now and rotate stays of Riviera/something new.
You're going to need a separate space for napping for many years, and you're also going to need the extra bathroom for potty training and baths. If you're lucky enough to have grandparents or an aunt or uncle want to tag along to help out, the 2B gets you space. If you had enough Riviera points, you could book a Tower for the grandparents to have a little privacy but still be on property to lend a hand. You have to own at Riviera to usually grab a Tower studio, so that's an option.
Laundry, my God, that's the best part! I do a load every night -- and we're just a family of four. We sweat like crazy in FL and also have to deal with inevitable sunblock stains on shirts. With four under four, you're going to need the space, and the Riviera and VGF 2B are really large and spacious. OKW is awesome, too, but that's dealing with buses for everything and a 2042 resort. Also, it's inevitable that at least one trip someone will get sick, have bad blisters, or it's raining for days on end. You do NOT want to be on top of each other in a 1B. If trapped in the room with four little kids, you'll be VERY glad to have three TVs to disperse the crowds and keep the chaos down while you guys tag team the family for feeding, diaper changes, napping, and keeping them occupied. Riviera's Community Hall is RIGHT there, too -- again, no leaving the building in the rain to go do arts and crafts while the babies sleep. Dad can take the kids to create Mickey mosaic coasters and grab a coffee and watch the kids while Mom and the littles nap and throw a load of laundry in.
Copper Creek 2B, I really like their foyer setup with the cubbies for storing your daily gear before you run out the door. I wish Riviera incorporated the cubbies in some sort of oui-oui-Francais, fancy-pants style, but c'est la vie! LOL.
BLT 2B we haven't stayed at yet, but the refurbishment looks great, they have an extra bathroom, and it's RIGHT THERE at MK, which is clutch for the next decade.
You *could* roll the dice on CFW and hope that rumors pay off and it's bundled into LSL, but at $45k, that's a big risk if you're not into the Fort Wilderness vibe.
I find a lot of wisdom in
@Brian Noble's advice, and years ago he mentioned not wanting anything less than a 2B for his family of four. We're also a family of four, kids are now going to be 12 and 13 this November trip, and our daughter is taller than me (5'8") and our son is about 5'6" and due for his puberty growth spurt any second now. The days of throwing him in the trundle bed are numbered, LOL, and we'll be eyeing the 2Bs for regular family trips from now on I think. I know it's a very daunting chunk of money, but if it means you can vacation, period, for the next decade, so long as you're not jeopardizing your family's finances, I think ripping the Band-Aid off now is the way to go. Team 2B!