DVCSunDevil
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I really have nothing to offer in terms of knowledge of how to handle this, but I wanted to chime in to give you my condolences. This entire situation sucks for you and your brother. It's a really tough and sticky situation because of the dynamics, but it sounds like things will get worked out since you have the divorce decree. That has to count for something, right?Yes, he left no beneficiaries but once the divorce is finalized, everything is null and void between the spouses. The divorce decree is your legal binding document and must go off of that. A good example was my Dad's IRA. My mom was listed as the beneficiary (he never changed it) but since their divorce was already finalized and he passed away, that is null and void which then goes to your next of kin which would be my brother and myself. My brother and I ended up splitting his retirement IRA even though my mom was listed as beneficiary. She didn't get any of it. I have contacted member services and they are aware of everything. I am currently going through probate in the state of Florida but it seems to take forever. It would be nice to come to an agreement with my mom but she isn't cooperating with my Brother and Myself. She wants to sell everything for the money which she can't do legally anyways otherwise we could sue her for that. We want to keep it. It was my dad's passion and we want to keep that going obviously. It is sad it has come to this but we have to do what we need to do. I have all the deeds, what am i specifically looking for in those deeds or what kind of language am I looking for? Thanks
Anyway, good luck and keep us posted. I hope you and your brother have years of DVC visits in your future!!