hpygrll said:
I don't want to beat a dead horse - but I would love opinions on the DDP.
I'll give you our opinions, based on our family's composition and normal Disney eating habits. We have me, DW, and DD4-going-on-24, so there are three of us...or about $87 per day.
Do you find it's worthwhile when staying in a one bedroom with a kitchen?
Yes, but for us, the kitchen is only where the refrigerator and TV are located. We do not enjoy cooking on vacation (DW phrases it a little stronger than that

, but the DIS has rules...)We like the one bedroom at OKW for the spacious abode, jacuzzi tub, washer & dryer, etc.
That being said we do love the restaurants as well.
Us too. I ran the numbers, comparing the DDP not to some phony menu-price totals, but what we would really probably eat if we were paying OOP. I should add, I'm talking about OOP - 20%, because we already had the DDE card. I calculated that we honestly saved about $70 (on a 5-day trip) over what we would have spent, eating normally and using the DDE card.
We had a number of CS and snack credits left over -- 3 each, actually. Part of that was fluky, because DW was sick one day. Those extra credits worked out fine for us, because we just went by Earl of Sandwich and loaded up with sandwiches and cookies, which we took home to Miami. Someone who was flying home would have been the envy of the entire coach section.
Despite the modest savings, I think the earlier mention of an "upgrade" rather than savings is how I look at our experience. We're not dessert people. We took most of our desserts back to our villa, packed them home, and then threw them out. We did enjoy some of the appetizers, although most of the time we ordered soup or salad instead of appetizers. But to me, the dining plan price covered the TS entree, tax and tip. The rest of the stuff was gravy.
The other big plus for us was character meals. We did two in five days -- Liberty Tree Tavern and 1900 Park Faire. We did both as dinners, rather than our normal breakfasts to save money, and that was a big step up. Your boys will enjoy the character meals, and I think they add a lot of value to the DDP for those of us with kids under 10. (not that kids over ten don't enjoy character meals, but because of the big price increase)