MamaBelle4
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My Pappy was in WWII. Grandpa was in Korea. And my father was in Vietnam. Not one of them will (or would before my grandfathers passed) talk to me about it. Occassionally, when my dad drinks, he will make some comments to my brothers or to my DH, but nothing he shares with me. I think he knows how much it would haunt me to KNOW what he went through at such a tender age.My grandfather was there. I never met him. He was an alcoholic who died in his forties. So not calling it PTSD doesn't mean they didn't suffer.
I also won't be seeing the movie.![]()
Men of those generations could not show their battle scars. Mental illness had an even greater stigma than today. Men had to be strong, unshakeable, unflappable. They weren't allowed weakness or perceived weakness. So many self medicated.
Having said that, I do enjoy a GOOD war movie. One that is based on historical events and not a romantic drama (I'm looking at YOU Pearl Harbor).