We go through this with our 12 year old grandson. Keep in mind you can modify the entree. We take our GS out to eat often, and he reads the menu carefully. He does not hesitate to tell the server to hold the onions, peppers, sauces and he also will ask to substitute a vegie for a different vegie, fries for mash potatoes. We are paying for the meal, so he should have it prepared the way he wants. Since he's also a disney adult I see him ordering filet mignon with fries at LeCellier on his next trip in Oct. We have never had a server tell us it can't be done. Since he travels with us often, he knows how to order at a restraurant and is not shy about it. He knows please and thank you makes the servers very accommodating.