"cheaper to fly then drive"
It always cracks me up when I see these responses... It amazes me that people could not consider that you actually PERFER to drive rather then to fly. and that it may have nothing to do with the cost (this may or may not be OP"s reasoning - but for lots of people out there ~ that is the case).
We perfer to drive... various reasons, not imporant to everyone. But it has been an adventure for sure. The key is to time your stops.. everytime we have to stop (bathroom, gas, etc) we make it a point to do everything in that stop...top off the tank, stretch our legs, potty break, etc. This way, you dont have to stop for gas, if the kiddo's are content to keep going or sleeping or something. The I95 book is a great resource, and they also have a kids version that I picked up @ barnes & nobles for $15.00... each state has trivia, games, and their own map to follow along on. DVD player is a plus for us as our kids don't get to watch much tv at home so they enjoy the extra screen time. we usually try to follow a map and plan out stops every 4 hours or so (During the day) then we'll research the areas we may approx be at during that time period so we can see what to do. We like to drive longer periods with fewer longer breaks, but some familys (my sister is one) perfers to drive shorter periods with shorter more frequent stops.
You need to make sure you don't set a schedule so ridge you can't stop and smell the roses if something looks interesting. In addition, you can't control what traffic you may hit so don't get stressed if your not on schedule. I look to book nights @ Holiday Inns for several reasons. #1 - they are consistent.. clean and comfty. not as nice as some hotels and nicer then others. The reason? most have the cancellation policy of having until 5 or 6pm of the DAY of check in to cancel your reservation w/o getting charged. I"ll make several Holiday Inn reservations a distance apart, and by 3 or 4 we know approx where we'll be and will call and cancel the others. verify the cancellation schedule though before you do this. Once we didn't we had just 1 reservation. Traffic was so awesome, we got there by 2:00pm.. and felt a little frustrated that we were stuck (did not want to keep gonig when we didn't have another hotel reservation further up the road.
Sorry so long.. I just love a good road trip. We consider it PART of the Vacation, not just transporation TO the vacation. ENJOY!!!