Also from NJ here (Saddle Brook). We have driven twice with my DS. This first time he was 8 months old. It was good to drive because we had so much stuff. At that age I just sat in the back with him & he was easy to entertain or he would sleep. We did stop & stay over I think in GA. We hit a bad storm. Coming home we didn't stop. Last year my son was 3 l/2, this car trip was a little different. We had the DVD player, I though he would love this. He did watch some shows, but it didn't hold his interest that long. We had to do alot more stops for him, & I had to sit in the back with him & entertain him. It was much easier I think at 8 months old then almost 4. We are going again in Oct. & this time we are flying. I also HATE to fly, I have never liked it, but I had to fly in April and I asked the DR. for something. It did take the edge off, I think if I didn't take anything I wouldn't have even went on the plane. Now this will be my DS lst. plane trip, so we will see how this goes. But I just can't do the drive down again.