Dress Code change?

Here is DCL's verbiage provided in our cruise document package.

A jacket for men and a dress or pantsuit for women are suggested in the evening at Lumiere's and Palo only. All other dining rooms recommend resort casual wear; no shorts, jeans or tank tops, please.
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Then it's no jacket required
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Required no, suggested (as seen above) yes.

I find it rather amusing that one would be so inflexible as to not be ready for whatever comes (they do have self serve laundromats....you can always wash your polo shirt and khakis and wear them a second time) I'm sure as we've all discussed in the past, we are essentially guests of DCL. If my host tells me the night I'm supposed to go to Lumieres that casual is the dress code, would I not be insulting my host if I thumbed my nose at their suggestion and decided to put on a jacket, knowing full well I'm over dressing (at least to what they've suggested of me)?

Sure you could say, "but you said in the documents that that was the dress code." Yeah, well, like there hasn't been out of date info in those documents before LOL

Anita--your DH's outfit sounds fine for Palo :)
 
Anita,

A suit for Palos is fine. DH wore a sport coat and tie on our cruise and we fit right in. In Palos we saw a couple of tuxes, a couple of nice suits, but most men had a nice sportcoat.

I probably wouldn't have noticed at all if it wasn't for this board and everyone questioning what is right and wrong for Palos.
 
Why is everything in this world going to the least common denominator? Why do we have to do what everyone else does?
If it says no shorts then it is no shorts. If it says to wear a jacket then wear a jacket. Where is the debate? I am tired of going to places that should be dressy and people are trying to see how sloppy they can get away with.
DH and I will be dressed up on this cruise and every other cruise we take. He will wear a tux in Palos and on formal nights.
Disney should either enforce their dress code or get rid of it entirely and then we can all go to dinner in our underwear if we want.
Sorry if I have upset some people, but that is the way I feel.
 
I fully agree with Denine.

If there are people in your party that don't want to follow the guidlines, then they should either not cruise, or eat somewhere else on the ship. :mad:

Shorts? Jeans? That is totally disrespectful to your family, tablemates, and the other people in the dining room.

This is not just their vacation, it is all our vacations.

Robb
Tuxes Rule!
 

and that is why Im hoping they put us at a table of 3 - because DH wants to only wear shorts on "his" vacation
but why should DS and I have to miss out on the dining?

He is renting a tux for formal & semiformal nights. That's why Im hoping to get him in to Palos on semiformal night
 
Didn't mean to start yet another dress code debate, just thought I would point out that there's a change in the DCL information. We would have used DCL guidelines for Lumiere's, but this change means there is one less (bulky) clothing item to pack. And to me, that's good news! Diana
 
We were the only one's dressed up at our table on formal nights and at Lumiere's. Unfortunately WE were the one's to feel uncomfortable because of this :(
 
Pugdog007,
Hey! I am sure you guys looked great! Don't you think the servers appreciate the effort people make to dress up for the occasion? Personaly, I would rather be overdressed than underdressed. Remember, when it comes down to it does it really matter what other people think? If you looked great,and your husband was impressed who cares! I dress up because it makes me feel beautiful....(and I look thinner!)...and I will be overdressed the whole vacation I am sure! But then I dress for me...my husband not the decor of the room or my table mates!
jmho///l :)
 
That is exactly what I was saying. I really don't care if the whole cruise is casual, although I do enjoy dressing up. Just make a dress code and stick to it. What gets me is that people know before they cruise, so if you don't like is plan for alternate dining or pick a different vacation.
 
<B>BRAVO Denine and jlmcantwait</B> - I wholeheartedly agree! Not only does it make <I>me</I> feel better to abide by the "requested" dress code, but I have noticed that it seems to get me better service and more attention from the CM's. I never "go with the crowd," I go by the "rules" (or request of the hosts). :bounce:
 
What it made me think is that people do not read their cruise docs!!! I can't believe that people would pay the $$$ for a cruise and not be excited enough to read ALL of the docs when they receive them! I read everything the 2nd time, just as I did the 1st! Because I was excited, and to make sure nothing had changed!

:rolleyes:
 
gee - I hope DS and I dont get bad service because DH refuses to put on long pants! Ive already had the talk with DS and he agrees - we are dressing up to whatever is asked of us.
Im already trying to put together our outfits and get DH to look as best as he can and still wear his shorts.

And sometimes people cant pick different vacations. DH would love to be on the Carnival ship where there is gambling. However, until DVC is paid off the only way for our family to cruise is on DCL.
 
Originally posted by imgoingtodisney
gee - I hope DS and I dont get bad service because DH refuses to put on long pants!
He won't get "bad" service. DCL would not do that! I was only pointing out that I <I>seem</I> to get "better" service and more attention when I (and I always do) meet their dress code, as opposed to those at my table who do not follow the dress code. By better service I mean attention above-and-beyond their duty.;)
 
I'd like to pipe in here and try to stick with the original topic. If DCL did indeed relax the dress code in Lumiere's, then that's fine. I just wish people would respect that and not relax it any more.

When we cruised, I enjoyed dressing up, mainly since I dress business casual most of the time, wearing a tux made me feel sort of special. And the great thing about a tux is it makes any shape man (even a big guy like me) look good. But, when it isn't a formal night, if I were allowed to dine in just slacks and a nice polo/sports shirt, I'd be just as happy to have the freedom of choice.

I do agree that it is a matter of respect - to your fellow cruisers and to DCL - that one should try to abide by the rules of the ship.

As far as feeling out of place when you do dress up. We were at a table of eight. I wore a tux, one gentleman wore a dinner jacket, the other a suit and the last no jacket. Nobody was made to feel out of place.
 
I recently inquired as to the dress code policy via email with DCL....here is what I heard back, hope it helps clear some stuff up!!...

"The Walt Disney World Resort and the Disney Cruise Line offer a casual, informal atmosphere. However, in restaurants Lumiere's (on the Disney Magic), Triton's (on the Disney Wonder), and Palo (on both ships), it is suggested that men wear jackets or a button-down shirt and tie, and ladies wear dresses or pantsuits.
For Animator's Palate and Parrot Cay (on both ships), button-down, open-collar shirts or polo shirts and slacks are recommended for men. Pants and a blouse or a casual dress are appropriate for ladies. As another note, we kindly request that no shorts, T-shirts, or jeans be worn in any of our restaurants during the evening. We recommend that children follow the same suggested guidelines as their parents.

On our 7-night cruise on the Disney Magic, we feature one "formal evening" and one "semi-formal evening" in all three restaurants. For the "formal evening" we suggest tuxedos for men and elegant gowns for women. However, please note that
the "formal evening" is "black tie optional," as we realize that some of our guests are more casual travelers. On either of these evenings we suggest that guests dress in what they feel would be appropriate and comfortable to them. For some men, this might mean a suit; for others, it might mean a sports jacket,
tie, and dress pants. For ladies, this might mean a cocktail dress or dressy pant suit. However, again, we kindly ask that jeans, shorts, and other casual wear not be worn, as we would anticipate guests would be uncomfortable dressing down amidst officers and guests who will be in more formal wear. For children,
parents should use their discretion. We anticipate that many parents will want their children to "dress up," particularly for formal portraits on these evenings. Our hope is that all of our guests will enjoy these elegant evenings,which have been a part of the fun and traditions of cruising since the inception
of the cruise industry. For those guests who do not wish to participate in these evenings, casual dining is available at Topsider Buffet. Naturally, we want every one of our guests to feel at home while they are sailing with us, and
so we hope these general guidelines will be helpful for your family.

Please note that tuxedo rental information will be included with the cruise document packet that is sent via Federal Express service 10-14 days prior to our guests' vacations. Information will be provided where guests can order directly from our provider, Cruiseline Formalwear. You may contact their Customer
Service Department Monday-Friday from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.(EST) by calling 1-800-551-5091. Their web page is www.cruiselineformal.com. Tuxedos will be delivered onboard by your stateroom host or hostess."
 
I keep telling myself to be quiet and stay out of this, but it's driving me crazy. Thanks for reprinting DCL's recommendations, Scottie. I just can't figure out how anyone can keep pretending shorts are okay in the dining rooms at night on this cruise. Dress doesn't have to be formal--just considerate.
 
I dont' have a lot to say that hasn't already said, except that people do get it in their heads that they're a) in the Caribbean b) at Disney and either is a statement for wearing nothing but shorts.

To me dressing nice for dinner is a good example of self-respect and respect for others.
 
We enjoy dressing up, it is part of the fun :) But, I would really hate to think DCL would treat you differently because of the way you dress. :( I have personally never seen this and hope I never do.
 
My husband and son (14) wore jackets to each visit of Lumieres (7-day western). On formal/semi-formal nights they wore tux (husband) and sport coat, dress pants & tie (son). The other family at our table did pretty much the same except that their son (15) wore a tux on formal/semi-formal. They were not at all out of place - would have been if they were casual. Al men wore polo-type shirt and dress pants or dockers in Parrots Cay and Animators' Palate.

Dressing up is a part of the atmosphere and adds to the dining pleasure. Like most things in life, we get out of it what we put into it. Those who don't want to dress up have other dining options.
 
Originally posted by TeensMom
Dressing up is a part of the atmosphere and adds to the dining pleasure. Like most things in life, we get out of it what we put into it. Those who don't want to dress up have other dining options.
VERY well said. Thank you! :teeth: Those who <I>always</I> equate Disney with "theme park casual" are obviously refusing to acknowledge that Disney (both land and sea) offers some fine and elegant dining, as well as fast-food options. A distinction in attire for those different atmospheres is made by Disney. Things would be much simpler is they enforced their request, as with certain restaurants on land that will not let you enter without meeting their dress code.
 

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