There are SOOO many factors that come into play here its hard to say, but happy to help out, if you want to update some info then I can help out more!
- Does that budget include food, souvenirs, and any extras?
- Do you fly or drive there b/c that can effect your budget?
- Do you and your SO have flexible schedules or is there a certain time of year you have to go/want to go like christmas, halloween, runDisney Event, etc.?
as a general idea you can start with these numbers:
Flight: $300/person
Current 10 day hopper tickets: $469/person
Food per day: $63.70/person -- this assumes the regular
disney dining plan with 1 QS, 1 TS, 1 snack. In my experience you can eat for less than this but its a safe number to use.
Using that as the necessities you can see that you have a total of $2688 (or $298/night) left over. then we have to account for taxes and disney inflation over the years and you'll probably have close to $2500 (or $277/night) left over. At that price range you have all the moderates and value resorts available to you. I would recommend Coronado Springs or POR. Cornado has a more adult feeling than most Disney hotels, but still has the Disney feeling. I liked my stay at the Dolphin, but it definitely did lack that Disney feel. If you would prefer to spend less on the hotel and have more for meals and souvenirs Pop Century is a great hotel for that: clean, friendly staff and gives you that Disney feel.
Something else you can also look into is renting DVC points to stay at Deluxe DVC resort. You could stay in a studio at most DVC hotels for that price. Depending on your preferences you can stay at the Boardwalk Inn, Animal Kingdom, or Bay Lake Tower. If you are planning on going this route you should be trying to book the points 11 months in advance of your dates.
Good luck and congrats!