Doreen's New Way of Life (comments are welcome)

:wave2: Hi Doe,
I really like your new way of thinking about your goal weight. As long as you are maintaining healthy habits and happy with the way you look, what difference does the number on the scale make? After all, it's about being healthy not about a number right?

Wishing you a wonderful night :wave: !
 
I was on track until I got home yesterday. I never made it to the health club - it was our wedding anniversary (19 years!) and DH wanted to go out to dinner. I had a low-carb meal and one mixed drink (something called a Kiss My Mango! :crazy: ). Then we went home and had cake with the kids for dessert.

I'll be back on track today with my pills, water, food and exercise. I've put 135 in my signature as my goal weight. In reality, I'm going to just try to keep my measurements either the same or going down, and let the weight fall where it may. I'm no longer weighing every day, only once a week on Sundays.
 
Grats on the 19yrs hope you had a blast. Was the cake good? Good luck on staying on track

Kristin
 
Doe my dear your are truely evil to tell me to drink that much water LOL. Just teasing you

Kristin
 

HI Doe-

Congrats on 19 years Happy Anniversary:lovestruc

Kiss my mango :tongue: sounds delicis & cake yummy!

135 sounds doable - the pounds will melt away. Are you hitting the gym today?
 
:flower: Happy Anniversary!:flower:

Congratulations to you and Todd! Sounds like you did okay to me yesterday - the cake was for a special occasion therefore the fat, calories, and carbs don't count! DUH!

~Amanda
 
MeMe, I was wavering on the health club goal but after reading other WISHers' journals and seeing their success fueled by consistent exercise, I'll be at the health club tonight, no matter what!! ::yes::

I found a story that I posted in Amanda's journal. I wanted to post it here too, so I don't forget it:

Little Frog -

There once was a tiny bunch of frogs . .. that arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower.

A big crowd gathered around the tower to cheer on the contestants The race began. Honestly, noone believed that any of the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. You heard statements such as: Oh, way too difficult!!!!

They will never make it to the top!

or Not a chance they will succeed, the tower is much too high.

One by one the frogs started to collapse except for those ones in a fresh tempo that kept climbing higher and higher.

The crowd kept yelling, you will never make it.....it is much too high.

More and more of the frogs dropped off except for one tiny frog kept climbing higher and higher. He wouldn't give up!

At the end everyone had given up except for this one tiny frog, with great effert who reached the top of the tower.

Naturally, at the end all the other frogs wanted to know how he had accomplished this. A contestant asked the tiny frog how he got the strength to succeed and meet the goal. It turned out that the winner was deaf!

The wisdom of this story is Never listen to people whose tendencies are negative or pessimistic because they take your most wonderful wishes and dreams away from you.....the ones in your heart! Always think of the power that words have.

Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions!

Therefore: Always be Positive! And above all, Be deaf to people that tell you that you cannot fulfill your dreams! Always think God and I can do this !

Such an important story for me to remember! I also think that the opposite is true - if you surround yourself with positive, supportive people, it will help you to reach your goals. I love the WISH Journal board for just that reason!! Whenever I feel like giving up or giving in, I often come here and read about the dedication and success of others and it helps me to be strong!

Thanks, WISH buddies!! :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
 
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Doe,
Happy 19th Anniversary!!!!! Thank you for sharing that story with us.::yes:: My DH and I have been doing a devotional that talks about speaking faith filled words into your life. This story is a great companion to that devotional. I will have to print it out and share it with DH tonight. Thank you for the encouragement!:hug:

Have a great Wednesday!

Tracy:wave:
 
Happy 19th Doe!!

You've been doing great with all the exercise minutes you've been putting in. Keep up the hard work!

I totally agree with you about the re-evaluating your goal weight. We're almost the same height (I'm 5'2") but I've realized that it would be way too hard for me to get down to 120 pounds. I may have been that much in high school but heck - I didn't have a husband and two kids to take care of back then. Do I want to watch DS play basketball or would I rather spend that time in the gym?

Hope you're having a :sunny: day!
 
:lovestruc HAPPY ANNIVERSARY:) :)

My husband and I will be celebrating 26 years tomorrow!!

Congrats!!

Stay focused and you can accomplish anything you set your mind to. Remember the weight did not come on in one day or even one month so it will be slow coming off.

That's why we are all here together to work on a healthier lifestyle.

Starting WW online tomorrow - an anniversary present to myself.

Hope you can stop by my journal sometime.

Have a Disney Day:earsgirl: :earsgirl:

Linda
 
I'm feeling anxious about BMR-2. That usually leads me to binge on carby junk and this time was no exception. :rolleyes: I get myself so anxious that I don't cook, I don't exercise, I don't do much of anything except escape either on the computer or into a good book. Then, by the time I realize I'm hungry, it's too late and/or there's no good low-carb food in the house and my recipe for disaster is complete. At least I'm beginning to recognize the patterns.

I did manage to meet 3 of my 4 goals yesterday. I took the pills, drank the water and got 60 minutes of exercise in at the health club. Food choices were awful, though.

I've got the same goals today and I truly must handle the food thing better if I ever want to lose these extra pounds. That means that I have to eat healthy food at the proper mealtimes, even if my tummy is upset from being anxious and even if I'm really not hungry.

Quote for today:
Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. - Sir Winston Churchill

EDIT: 1:10 PM
I took my pills. I've been drinking - 2 mugs down and more to come. Food, let's see - there was a light & fit yogurt, a pack of crackers, an apple with peanut butter and a cup of soup. That was breakfast, snack and lunch. No exercise necessary today, since I did an hour last night at the health club.

Anxiety level on a scale of 1 to 10 = about a 7. I keep looking at the quote above and remembering that failure is not fatal. All I have to do is my best and it will be good enough. Baby steps will get me through this report.
 
Doreen great story I just loved it. I know its hard to always make the right choices when it comes to food but at least your tackling all your other goals. Just think how much better you will feel when you get them all down pat. Have a great day.

Kristin
 
Good Morning Doe! Looks like you and I are in the same boat these days. Lets :boat: the wave together! Don't let the BMR get to you - remember to take deep breaths when you are getting anxious and take small breaks.

~Amanda
 
Doe...you can do this. You've been getting in that exercise. Just like you told me in my journal...maybe you need to get some new low carby foods in the house so that it will be new when you go to look for something to satisfy your hunger.

Just remember how well you did with the first BMR. It will all work out...and you'll be mad that you stressed about it! You're doing great...and I've told you before...you are such an inspiration to so many. You visit so many journals and just encourage everyone. You need to take some of your own advice! Have a great day!

Gail:)
 
Doe:

I so glad I read your journal tonight. My DH has hidden my scale - not that I'm prone to weighing myself every day, usually I approach it once a week or every other - he said that if the number didn't move that my attitude was horrid! And I admit, I've been disappointed by the number...it hasn't moved in months!

Well - there is a bright side. It hasn't gone up either. My goal weight is/was similar to yours and it was what I weighed in high school and when I got married. I was really happy at that time in my life and I think my association with the number on the scale is wanting to have that kind of happiness now too.

So I've decided that I will be happy, follow my dreams no matter how challenging and do my very best to make good health choices along the way. The extra weight will come off when it's darn good and ready to disappear.

-Laurie

(thanks for checking up on me...nose is still above scholastic water, I haven't drown yet.)
 
:grouphug: Thank you, WISH friends! Your support truly does help me keep going. :grouphug:

I'm so tired! I've been staying up way too late watching the Olympics and haven't gotten to bed until after midnight most nights this week. My usual bedtime is 9:30 :teeth: , so my wagon is draggin'! :crazy: I'm looking forward to catching up on my sleep this weekend.

I didn't do very well with goals yesterday. I did take the pills and drank MOST of my water. It was a rest day for exercise. Food was better but not as low-carb as I need it to be. I'm looking forward to a grocery trip this weekend so I can have the right stuff on hand at home.

My baby (DD) turns 15 today. Hard to believe but so amazing to watch her turning into a wonderful young lady (when she's not pouting or rolling her eyes at me....LOL!). Of course that means dinner out (her choice is Pizza Hut). I plugged the marching band schedule (DD and DS) and the tennis schedule (DD) into my Palm last night - we're going to be very busy with fall activities, not to mention the rigors of high school! School starts on August 30th - only 10 days from now. Where did the summer go?

Today - pills, water, food and a quick walk at lunch for exercise. I can do this. I've already made progress on the BMR-2 this morning. My boss has looked it over and says I'm on the right track so far. Anxiety level (from 1 to 10) is a moderate 5 - better than yesterday.

"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it!" Not sure about chapter & verse but it sure sounds like a joyous refrain for my day! :sunny:

EDIT: 10 AM
Pills have been taken. Almost 24 oz of water down. B = 1 scrambled egg and 3 small sausage links. :sunny:

EDIT: 1:45 PM
Finishing up 42 oz of water. L = Subway lc wrap. I'm drinking a Coke C2 (18g).

I mentioned that I'd like to try Coke C2 and a coworker brought me one. Frankly, I need the caffeine to get through the afternoon. It tastes pretty good - not as "syrupy" and "sweet" as regular Coke (which is too sweet for my taste), but no nasty aftertaste like I usually get with diet Coke. It looks like a good way for me to get some caffeine when I need it without overloading on carbs. A good find, but one that I'll use only rarely! :sunny:
 
Morning Doe! You sound bright and :sunny: this morning.

:bday: to your DD!

I hope you have a great day today and are able to :boat: the wave this morning!

~Amanda
 
Congrats to you!! You are full of energy and getting alot accomplished!!:jumping1: :jumping1:

Keep going and enjoy the day!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DD!!! My baby is 16 - they grow up so fast.

Have a Disney Day!!:earsgirl:
 

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