I agree, the photo should be included in the price of the meal or allow us to put it on photopass. I hate that I am pressured to buy the photo package when I just want the one photo for my scrapbook and maybe one for a frame.
I always take a couple pics of just DD with Donald & then we have the photog use our camera to get a couple of family pics.
DH bought the $30 pics the first year and I was so mad because we had the same picture on our camera. Then I realized that we could use them as Christmas gifts, so we kept the 5x7 & gave the 4x6's as gifts.
OP - so sorry your waiter did not pay attention to your table. We've had the same waiter both times and he's been wonderful! If you have that problem again, do as a pp said and flag down another table's waiter.