Sadly, I would be the friend or co-worker making you appreciate who you married.
I remember telling my boss about the birthday gift my Dh got me a couple of years ago. A pooper scooper. Well, I just know he walked out of there feeling like the worlds number ONE husband, because he would never dream of getting his wife a pooper scooper. He did say my Dh was his hero though...what ever that means (LOL)