dreamer17555
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LOL! I understand! We also try to keep it pretty equal, but I'm not *that* particular. (But I also keep a spread sheet to try to figure out how much I've spent, how many packages and what's coming from Santa.)
But to make it even worse, my *mother* is stressing out. She always made an even number of packages even if someone ended up with 2 unrelated things in the same box (so they wouldn't have "more packages" than the other kid.) I don't think anything on my sister's list this year was under $50... and I don't think anything on my list was over $25. My mom is stressing out. She said "I don't know what I'm going to do. I could only get her three things, and you have a whole pile." I said, teasingly. "Bwah-ha-ha! I will have the biggest pile of gifts. I always knew you loved me most!" and she said "I don't know, Kim.... I think I might have to put all of your stuff into 3 boxes. I don't know what I'm going to do!" And she's serious. By the way, I'm 45... and my sister is 42. ;-)
This will be me when I am older. I am obsessed about making sure they open the same number of gifts. I don't even stress so much about the costs exactly (because toys are cheaper than electronics and my children have a five year age gap) but number of boxes opened must be the same. Our family is blessed by having extended family ship gifts for them and making sure those are even is always fun. Honestly most of my family knows have anxiety issues and have started shipping directly from the store and know I will pick out a paper just for gifts from them, beautifully wrap and tag their gift, and make sure it ends up being the same number of packages. My DD is 15 and could careless if she has left gifts to open but I CARE darn it!