As I stated in an earlier thread somewhere( forget where), that this trip to WDW for 8 days. Is our first and because it is so expensive, this is going to be my familys christmas, birthdays and everything all rolled into one. If we say something to someone, will they still do something special for the kids and possibly the wife even if it isn't their birthdays? I ask this because we have agreed (the wife and I) to forgoe the ritual of giving gifts this year so that we can do the whole wdw thing.