Does anyone else feel discouraged?

TigerCheer2009

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Am I the only one who can't bear to read others journals???? I'm really psyched for them...but I haven't had a loss since my first week. I feel like I'm so inadequate because I can't lose, which makes me mad. I'm sticking it out because I want this more than anything!!! My eating could be better, but I'm doing everything else right.

:guilty: :guilty: :guilty: :sad2: :sad2: :sad2: !!!
 
I definitely know that feeling.

I haven't really lost anything in the past 6 months despite actually exercising(even if I don't make 1000 minutes I am getting half that each month or more) these days. I'm actually up a few pounds from when I first started.
 
Zoesmama03!!! thanks for replying. it makes me sad because I want to congratulate people, but can't get enough done right to get my booty in gear!!!!! :guilty:
 
We all get discouraged, it's part of the process. You say your not losing, are you going by the scale or how your cloths are fitting.

How long has it been since you have noticed a loss? You may need to adjust what you are doing. Are you exercising? What types are you doing? If you have been doing the exact same type of exercising it may be time to shake it up a bit and try something differant. Are you dieting or just trying to eat healthy? Are you eating every 2-3 hours or are you going long periods of time without eating? And are you drinking diet soft drinks? This can halt weight loss in some people.

If what you are doing is not working, you may just need to take a step back and make some changes. What works for some people to lose weight may not work for others.

I have found that I can work out 5-6 times a week, doing 60-90 minutes of cardio a day, 30 minutes of strength training a day and if I binge to much, I don't notice a change at all.

Good luck and hang in there, we have all been there.
 

gshoemate said:
We all get discouraged, it's part of the process. You say your not losing, are you going by the scale or how your cloths are fitting.

How long has it been since you have noticed a loss? You may need to adjust what you are doing. Are you exercising? What types are you doing? If you have been doing the exact same type of exercising it may be time to shake it up a bit and try something differant. Are you dieting or just trying to eat healthy? Are you eating every 2-3 hours or are you going long periods of time without eating? And are you drinking diet soft drinks? This can halt weight loss in some people.

If what you are doing is not working, you may just need to take a step back and make some changes. What works for some people to lose weight may not work for others.

I have found that I can work out 5-6 times a week, doing 60-90 minutes of cardio a day, 30 minutes of strength training a day and if I binge to much, I don't notice a change at all.


Good luck and hang in there, we have all been there.

I'm going by the scale, and how I feel. the clothes aren't fitting any weirder than usual. I'm exercising everyday, thirty minutes usually in gym with kickball/basketball, and when I babysit, I get a lot of exercise..but that's only once a week. I dance around my house, too/ I think I need to be doing something more, that produces sweat!!!! :) I eat when I can, usually at: 7:30 am, 11:15, 3:00 (school times), and then anywhere from 6-9 for dinner. That could be my problem, too. I'm trying to eat healthier and am probably going to start WW Points during the summer (easier to track that way...school food :earseek: :earseek: :earseek: !!!!!!!) I drink diet pop every once in a while when I go out, but mostly water. I think my problems are: drumroll please!!! I need to eat "better foods" and change up my exercise.

Feel free to "make corrections" to my plan whenever you like. I appreciate it.
Thanks for posting, gshoemate!!!!!!
 
Tigercheer2009- I think you have identified your reasons for not making continuing losses...you said you can eat better foods and change up your exercise. For me, it is always about eating better. I could only ever lose the same 7-10 pounds and then stay put because of too large portions and snacking. Then it finally clicked and I've maintained my goal of 25 lbs. for one year now. Don't get down on yourself, just figure out what you need to do to make those food changes. For me, it was to eat more protein and stop snacking on carbs. I also added weights to my exercising and that helped. You can do it! Just use this as a catalyst for more lasting change!
 
kjs1976 said:
Tigercheer2009- I think you have identified your reasons for not making continuing losses...you said you can eat better foods and change up your exercise. For me, it is always about eating better. I could only ever lose the same 7-10 pounds and then stay put because of too large portions and snacking. Then it finally clicked and I've maintained my goal of 25 lbs. for one year now. Don't get down on yourself, just figure out what you need to do to make those food changes. For me, it was to eat more protein and stop snacking on carbs. I also added weights to my exercising and that helped. You can do it! Just use this as a catalyst for more lasting change!

I agree with what kjs1976 said! Also to add, I have been reading alot about eating every 2-3 hours. Anything longer then 3 hours your body goes into starvation mode and starts storing up fat. I'm not saying you have to eat full meals every 2-3 hours but alternate between a meal and a healthy snack.

I have been visiting this great website. Alot of people on their are body builders that compete and they have alot of great advice. It's http://www.oxygenmag.net/forumdisplay.php?f=5
 
Hi,

I'm so sorry you are feeling discouraged. I have had some great success and now I am somewhat stalled. But I remember before I got serious about my food I was not losing at all. I worked out 5 days a week, burning between 900-1100 calories per workout but it wasn't enough to make me lose weight because my portions where way out of whack. For me, finally joining WW and learning to eat within their guidelines made a huge difference. When I started journalling all of my food I realized I ate much more than I thought. But it sure isn't easy. I know how it feels to be exercising, drinking your water, taking your vitamins and not seeing results. It can be very discouraging.

Sending the Whoosh fairy your way :wizard: :wizard: :wizard:

Sunny
 
Hope your having a better day today. But just to let you know your not alone. I'm also feeling somewhat discouraged. It's that TOM and my body is playing cruel jokes on me with the scale. I'm going to pack up the baby and go for a walk outside. You wanna do it too?

You can do it and get past any funk you may be feeling right now. Just keep at it! Do you journal? I keep one over at fitday. Get your plan together. What's the plan today? What are your goals today? Just take it one day at a time. I'll share my goals for today, feel free to adopt them.

Today, I'm going to drink 80oz of water.
Today, I'm going to exercise.
Today, I'm going to eat more veggies.
Today, I'll stop eating at 7:00pm.

:cheer2: :cheer2: :cheer2:
 
Thanks for replying. The plan for today kinda didn't work out.

Here's how it turned out.
B: PB toast (with 2 bites of unknown uncooked egg, blech!!!!)
L: spaghetti, 1.5 cheese breadsticks, 24 oz water
S: 1 PBJ, 48 oz water
D: ???
Exercise: 33 minutes done.

I'm going to try: not eating after 7 even if I miss dinner (I'll have something earlier), packing my lunch tomorrow, eating less carbs for snacking, WW points maybe???. I don't think I'll be able to swing the "eat every three hours" thing :(!!! I feel good today though. Down another inch, but no weight yet. Great Red Devil/GRD (or as you guys say, TOM) is on its last day hopefully so everything should be better tomorrow. I'm going to have to rent some exercise DVD's, any recommendations??? I also want to try WW, how many points are a good starting level??

Thanks for all of your help...I feel better when I talk to all of you :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: !!!!!! "Love ya, mean it!"
 
TigerCheer2009 said:
Thanks for replying. The plan for today kinda didn't work out.

Here's how it turned out.
B: PB toast (with 2 bites of unknown uncooked egg, blech!!!!)
L: spaghetti, 1.5 cheese breadsticks, 24 oz water
S: 1 PBJ, 48 oz water
D: ???
Exercise: 33 minutes done.

Sorry you are discouraged. Keep at it!!! Stay off the scales. There are days I don't look in the mirror. Looking at your food intake my suggestions would be limit the BAD cards (bread, breadsticks, jelly) and eat more veggies
 
Thanks Franco. For dinner, I think grilled meat, salad and some potato dish (because we have...50 pounds of potatoes. No joke!!!!!) would be good!!
 
Okay, but what should I do with 50 lbs of potatoes??????? I mean, other than give them away...thanks. I will TRY with all my might to skip the potato!
 
Well, potatoes are not totally bad for you. Based on the glycemic index they are considered bad in terms of negatively affecting your blood sugar level and based on the South Beach Diet and Atkins potatoes are scorned because it's a carb. Really, you could add butter to the potato to make it more blood sugar friendly, meaning adding butter or cheese to the potato won't spike your level as much as if you would just eat the potato by itself. I wouldn't throw them away - I would use them up, but next time don't buy so many or at least eat them off and on. ;)

BTW are you a student? If so, I can understand your predicament trying to study, work, workout, and eat right. There are cheaper sources of protein out there like eggs and tuna, you could make a protein shake concoction, and other ways to afford it. I have read countless articles in Muscle and Fitness and Musclemag about college students trying to eat right on a budget.

You actually need carbs to fuel your cardio workouts. What kind of carbs are you eating besides salads and potatoes? Some folks add whole grains, like oatmeal, brown rice, and quinoa, to their diet which is good for fiber, weight loss, and to regulate blood sugar levels.

B: PB toast (with 2 bites of unknown uncooked egg, blech!!!!)
L: spaghetti, 1.5 cheese breadsticks, 24 oz water
S: 1 PBJ, 48 oz water
D: ???
Exercise: 33 minutes done.

It sure looks like you're getting way too many carbs. Yes, consider eating every 2 to 3 hours and you need to make especially sure you are getting enough protein and a little bit of fat. For me I try to eat a little bit of protein at each major meal and for each snack. I eat 3 main meals and 3 snacks during the course of the day. Then again it depends on your goals and what eating plan you have chosen. If you're going on WW that makes it easier to count points, but if you want a fitness physique that won't necessarily work for you.

I have been exercising for years. I am a member of various fitness and bodybuilding sites and frankly that site (oxygenmag) and others have a lot of gals that already know how to eat and train hard. Have you consulted with a nutritionist or at least researched good nutrition to reach your goals? Having a good foundation helps a whole lot.

Also, you need to be aware of the amount of calories you're eating. Are you keeping track? www.fitday.com is a good resource.

Are you doing any strength workouts? It makes a big difference.

HTH and keep it up :)
 
I would have to agree--don't give the potato a bad rap. In moderation (as with everything) they're one of the best foods out there. Potatoes are realtively low calorie for how filling they are, full of fiber, and full of great vitamins. Yes, they're not that healthy when you drench them in lots of butter, cheese, and sour cream, but a baked potato with low-fat cheese and salsa is a very filling, healthy meal.

Be careful of anyone who tells you foods are "bad" or "good". One of the best things about the WW program is that it acknowledges that there is a place for almost every food in our diets--it's all about moderation and balance.

Should you limit refined carbs? Sure. Whole grain foods are much better for you. But a potato is not a refined carb like Wonder Bread or White Rice that has been stripped of all of it's fiber and nutrients. Try to stick to whole grain cereals (Cheerios are great!), whole wheat breads/rolls, whole wheat pasta, etc.

Also, a note about the Glycemic Index. It's an interesting tool, but it's only one tool in deciding what types of foods to eat. According to the Glycemic Index, Peanut M&M's are "better" for you than oranges. I think there may be some bugs in that theory :teeth:
 
Actually I know for me peanut m&m's do not spike my blood sugar as much as an orange. Weird I know but it is true! It just happened to me last week and eating an orange made my blood sugar all out of wack which made me feel terrible for the rest of the day.
 
I agree about white potatos not being "BAD" - I eat them a couple times a week - I top a baked potato with low fat cottage cheese - very yummy and filling and I am still losing weight.
 
Last week I was very discouraged I had gained 2lbs. It was not TOM, I increased my walking and was eating the same foods. So why the weight gain? I was eating late at night 7:30-8:30. I started eating again at 6 and I have dropped that weight plus 2 and 1/2.
 
grlpwrd said:
Well, potatoes are not totally bad for you. Based on the glycemic index they are considered bad in terms of negatively affecting your blood sugar level and based on the South Beach Diet and Atkins potatoes are scorned because it's a carb. Really, you could add butter to the potato to make it more blood sugar friendly, meaning adding butter or cheese to the potato won't spike your level as much as if you would just eat the potato by itself. I wouldn't throw them away - I would use them up, but next time don't buy so many or at least eat them off and on. ;)

BTW are you a student? If so, I can understand your predicament trying to study, work, workout, and eat right. There are cheaper sources of protein out there like eggs and tuna, you could make a protein shake concoction, and other ways to afford it. I have read countless articles in Muscle and Fitness and Musclemag about college students trying to eat right on a budget.

You actually need carbs to fuel your cardio workouts. What kind of carbs are you eating besides salads and potatoes? Some folks add whole grains, like oatmeal, brown rice, and quinoa, to their diet which is good for fiber, weight loss, and to regulate blood sugar levels.



It sure looks like you're getting way too many carbs. Yes, consider eating every 2 to 3 hours and you need to make especially sure you are getting enough protein and a little bit of fat. For me I try to eat a little bit of protein at each major meal and for each snack. I eat 3 main meals and 3 snacks during the course of the day. Then again it depends on your goals and what eating plan you have chosen. If you're going on WW that makes it easier to count points, but if you want a fitness physique that won't necessarily work for you.

I have been exercising for years. I am a member of various fitness and bodybuilding sites and frankly that site (oxygenmag) and others have a lot of gals that already know how to eat and train hard. Have you consulted with a nutritionist or at least researched good nutrition to reach your goals? Having a good foundation helps a whole lot.

Also, you need to be aware of the amount of calories you're eating. Are you keeping track? www.fitday.com is a good resource.

Are you doing any strength workouts? It makes a big difference.

HTH and keep it up :)

Yeah, I am a student. Note: I didn't buy the potatoes...they were given to me!!!! My mom gave 50 boxes of green beans to the food bank...they're returning the favor. I am using fitday.com. It's amazing!!! I haven't met with a nutritionist yet...I want to, though. I haven't really had that many whole grains. :(
 


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