Do you think i can do this at Cali Grill?

Your husband never surprises you with a prepared dinner? You never get breakfast in bed? You've never been blindfolded and taken to a romantic restaurant? You've never been told to pack for three days, two nights and bring an evening gown and heels?

Yeah, i guess we're strange because we do those sorts of things.

I am trying to understand you but sorry, these are not the same as ordering someone elses food for them. They are however nice things to do for your spouse.
 
That was the point of my post also, to point out that it is not a "southern" thing or a culture thing.

If this is something that your family has always done that is cool, it is just not indicative of Southern culture. IMHO

Now if say someone did this for me, I don't think I would be insulted (but I may wish I could have picked out my own meal). I think I would prefer to be told "order whatever you'd like". That is just me.
 
LSUfan, yes I am serious but which you seem to take offense to those views that differ from yours

No mam, not at all. I welcome differing opinions. I take offense to saying my opinion is weird or strange because it differs from yours.

There is a HUGE difference and call it what you want, or convince yourself however you need to, but calling an opinion that differs from yours as strange or weird is self centered.
 
You came on a message board and asked a question. The consensus you received is not necessarily to your liking

Very few actually answered the question. Most people, like you, judged th decision i made and offered different advice.

Its like someone walked into a gas station and asked directions to Universal Studios because his GPS broke but you interjected by telling him how much better Sea World was and criticized his decision to go to Universal.

I dont expect you to see the difference because you hold your opinion in much higher regard than it actually is.
 

I am trying to understand you but sorry, these are not the same as ordering someone elses food for them. They are however nice things to do for your spouse.

Not the same????

Whether its your spouse or not, its the same principle. Your surprising a loved one with an experience where the the exact entree or main course doesnt overshadow the moment.
 
I'm closing this thread if it continues to be a discussion of what's weird and what isn't. It's really off the topic of whether or not Ca. Grill will allow the OP to do what he wants to do.
 
I'm closing this thread if it continues to be a discussion of what's weird and what isn't. It's really off the topic of whether or not Ca. Grill will allow the OP to do what he wants to do.

Good idea, everyone has their on way of life and opinions on what to do :santa:
 
Your husband never surprises you with a prepared dinner? You never get breakfast in bed? You've never been blindfolded and taken to a romantic restaurant? You've never been told to pack for three days, two nights and bring an evening gown and heels?

Yeah, i guess we're strange because we do those sorts of things.

Nope, doesn't happen.
 
I called and left them a message, but they mention it may take 2 days to get back with me. Ill update as soon as i hear.



Because i will go to the restaurant the day of their reservation (a few hours before). I will look at the menu that night, order their courses, their wine and two non alcoholic beverages. I will then pay the bill, leaving a 25% gratuity in cash for the server who takes care of them.

If someone did that for you, you would take it as someone was telling you what to eat?


Calif. Grill doesn't open until 5 pm (or possibly 5:30 pm?) and that is the earliest you'd be able to go up the elevator before their reservation. I know we went up in the first wave of people to sit in the bar and seating for dinner reservations didn't start until half an hour or so later.



And yes, to answer your question, if someone did that for me, I would take it as someone telling me what to eat. Even my 3 year old gets a say in what he wants to eat when we dine at Disney. :rotfl2:
 
I paid for a dinner at Victoria and Albert's for my parents. The day of their dinner, I called and provided my credit card number.

It was billed that evening.

Quite easy and no issues.

Julia
 
Calif. Grill doesn't open until 5 pm (or possibly 5:30 pm?) and that is the earliest you'd be able to go up the elevator before their reservation. I know we went up in the first wave of people to sit in the bar and seating for dinner reservations didn't start until half an hour or so later.



And yes, to answer your question, if someone did that for me, I would take it as someone telling me what to eat. Even my 3 year old gets a say in what he wants to eat when we dine at Disney. :rotfl2:

Next question is:are you allowed to go up there?
I know they are strict giving entrance into the lift.
 
Personally I think it is very nice of you to treat your parents at California Grill its one of my favorites! As far as ordering for them, who cares everything on the menu is good. I love surprises and I am sure they will appreciate you taking care of all the details :thumbsup2:thumbsup2 Enjoy :)
 
Next question is:are you allowed to go up there?
I know they are strict giving entrance into the lift.

They WILL let you up there if you have business up there or you would like to go to the lounge.
 
They WILL let you up there if you have business up there or you would like to go to the lounge.

I respectfully disagree. We dined in the CG tree times last May and every time they denied people to go to the restaurant without an actual and valid reservation for that time. This led to very heated discussions at the counter and lift entrance but there was no getting into the lounge for others than actual diners.

The lounge and the waiting chairs were over crowded with people waiting for their table and it would have been madness to let any more guests into a fully overcrowded restaurant. We waited 45 minutes before we could be seated.
 
I respectfully disagree. We dined in the CG tree times last May and every time they denied people to go to the restaurant without an actual and valid reservation for that time.

I have been to the lounge without a reservation many times, and recently (the last time in October and I plan to do it again this coming Thursday). The only time they restrict to reservations only is when it is very crowded up there (usually around fireworks time). I usually go early. It's also rather easy to get access to the lounge after the fireworks are over. So, no, it's not restricted to reservations only all the time.

And if you are only going up there to conduct business, like pay for someone else's meal, there isn't much reason why they won't escort you up to see the manager, or call for the manager to come down.
 
Granted this was around the Wishes time.
This whole letting everyone into the restaurant is the main reason we stopped dining there. We think it is ridiculous to let dining guests wonder around whiteout even a chair to sit and let non dining guest take up the seats. It is in fact the same system they have in the QS restaurants. You just have to wonder around until you can get a seat although you pay top price. The only difference is you are "trapped" at the CG and just have to stand until you will be seated and in a QS restaurant you can wait outside sitting on a bench or on the curb.
We like Narcoossees much better for that reason. :thumbsup2 (and of course we can walk back on our knees to our resort if necessary :rotfl2:)
 
They don't let EVERYONE into the restaurant. They'll let you up to the bar/lounge if they have space for you. If it's crowded and the seats are taken, you don't get up from the second floor unless you have a reservation. It isn't a problem or they'd stop doing it. And if I go up there to the lounge I am ordering drinks and food so I believe I count as a dining guest. They serve the full menu in the lounge. I am going up for some sushi this week and am glad I don't need to make a reservation to go up and order sushi at around 6:30 (fireworks are at 9:30, should be fine)

Narcoosees has a bar too (albeit a small one) and yes you can go in there and eat at the bar if you don't have a reservation.

The OP only wants to contract some business, so there isn't any reason to not escort him up to allow him to do that if it's necessary. If there's space in the bar I am sure they wouldn't mind if he even stayed for a drink.
 
Julia M:
Did you choose the menu items for your parents??

And if CG will allow the OP to do what he proposes, he should have no problem in getting up there.
 
I go up and eat in the lounge, no reservations, but never around firework time.
 












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