we like EMH, but we do have a way to skirt the crowds.
for morning hrs, we leave very early & get there in time enough to be standing right at the rope.
Evenings, we'll leave fairly early or close out the parks & I do mean close out, like some of the last families to depart
we also drive back, most EMH evening hrs. or if taking the buses, put on our patience sneakers. We think mellow & will even wait the extra 15-20 minutes for the next in order to get a seat.
We never leave after the fireworks or when the crowd seems to be streaming out, shoulder to shoulder.
FYI, we always go during the slower seasons, so this is a factor, too. Also, Saturday nights we tend to avoid even regular evening hrs altogether
Jean