I have yet to find a pillow I like. Feather squishes down too much, and folding makes it too hard. But foam or fiberfill, end up flattening or being too hard. My arms go to sleep, my ears hurt. Stephen says I'm just like the princess and the pea. If everything isn't perfect, I can't sleep. Someday I'll find a pillow that is high enough so my arms don't go to sleep, soft enough so my ears don't hurt, and long lasting. Boy, am i weird or what?