I liove by the "things can always be worse" rule, because I am nurse and I see on a day-to-day basis that there are people in te world with WAY more troubles than me.
Plus, that's ho my parents were. If you came in with a cut on your knee, they'd be like "well, it could have been worse, you could have broken you r leg". If you came in with a broken leg, they'd be like "well, it could have been worse, you could have amputated your leg". If you came in with an amputated leg, they'd say "well it could have been worse, you could have amputated both legs". If you came in with both legs amputated, they'd say "well, it could have been worse, you could have been killed."