My fiance raised 2 boys alone, so he is use to being Mr Mom, so he does most of the cooking and cleaning, he actually enjoys it, I don't. Though the last few months he has been at a 9 to 5 job, and I work 6 to 2, so i am home several hrs before him, so i have been at least starting dinner at night, he gets up with me at 4 amand cleans the house before he goes to work, its not expected, he just likes doing it.