If I had been just looking based on what I find most physically appealing, I'd be with someone over 6 ft. However, there was so much more I cared about. My husband of 23 years is 5'7" to my 5'6". If he was going with just what was most physically appealing to him, he'd probably be with someone who was shorter. Fortunately for me, height wasn't one of his main qualifiers either.