barkley,
Interesting about the bridges. I'm still trying to figure out what has triggered my bridge problem. Every year that I have been driving (I'm 42), I have gone to the beach and driven over the Chesapeake Bay Bridge which is very long and very high. It has never given me a problem. About 8 years ago, I was making my usual trek to the beach and about 1/3 of the way onto the bridge, I felt like I was going to go over the side. I had this "wild" feeling that I was going to lose control of my car. It was torture getting across the bridge. This happened to me the following year. Then I stopped going to the beach for awhile (not because of the bridge). Last week I decided to go for a day trip. You know, I didn't even THINK about that darn bridge. I paid the toll, started driving and WHAM it hit me again. This time I got a POUNDING heart rate, very fast, and I couldn't breathe normally. I was gripping the wheel like you wouldn't believe. As I got closer to the end of the bridge, the panic eased. Now, I can drive over all sorts of smaller bridges and, in fact, do so daily.
that's exactly the way i was feeling-and you have this intense desire to pull over but you CAN'T! it's terrifying. i'm o.k with most bridges now-but if i get stressed when driving anywhere (esp. a place i'm unfamiliar with) it feels like the lanes have narrowed and my car has swelled to the size of a hummer!