Do you have a "type"?

[MadameLeota]

Yes, they have to play video games, I admit I love video games. It would be a plus if they like Final Fantasy. .
I don't really care what they look like. Taller than me...uhh that's pretty much it...haha...Athletic, to make up for my non athletic-ness...lol

An athletic gamer....isn't that an oxymoron...hm...out of all the gamers I know it certainly would be an oxymoron!

 

[Sparx]

An athletic gamer....isn't that an oxymoron...hm...out of all the gamers I know it certainly would be an oxymoron!

I know one gamer whos a boxer. I know another who plays soccer.

but with the rest, yes its an oxymoron.

 

[::Snow_White::]

I know one gamer whos a boxer. I know another who plays soccer.

but with the rest, yes its an oxymoron.

I have no idea what that means...lol....and I was pretty much kidding, I don't care if he's athletic, if he's a couch potato Allright! Because I pretty much am too. He just has to like doing something sometimes is what I meant.

 

[Mur13]

An athletic gamer....isn't that an oxymoron...hm...out of all the gamers I know it certainly would be an oxymoron!

I play games all the time and I play Football and Lacrosse...well, Lacroose, not playing football next year.

 

[Sparx]

I play games all the time and I play Football and Lacrosse...well, Lacroose, not playing football next year.

I love to watch lacrosse, but I have no idea about the rules or anything.

oh, and oxymoron is like "bittersweet"

 

[::Snow_White::]

I love to watch lacrosse, but I have no idea about the rules or anything.

oh, and oxymoron is like "bittersweet"

Ohhh, okey dokey I get it now. Thank you!

I think lacrosse looks pretty cool, but I've never got a chance to watch it...

 

[wolfxofxnovember]

I like girls who are intelligent (like me), are physically attractive as well as emotionally. I also like girls from all over (Especially English girls) I am 16 If anyone wants to talk to me my AIM is wolfonovember.

 

[MadameLeota]

idk what lacrosse is

My friends and I came up with a game called Ball-In-The-Hole..rather simple...divide up in two teams, and try and get the ball in the hole thats dug in the ground...BUT...there are no rules about how violent it can get...it's been compared to rugby, pretty much...people get knocked out, I got my face all busted up once...it was so much fun! In a couple of months we had 60 people showin up to play, and people were playin it in Colorado where our friend had moved to.

At our senior day at the park, the administrators came over the loudspeaker and announced that we couldn't play Ball-In-The-Hole...everyone knew of our game!

 

[Mur13]

Well, college lacrosse is over. Pro lacrosse is on now, once a week, but pro lacrosse is lame.

It is indeed extremley fun. Painful (I play goalie, now), but fun.

I used to play defense (I still could) and thats pretty fun too.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

My best friend/cousin is a gamer. And he IMs me while camping out his beasties. Gaming is no excuse to ignore someone.

I'm sure if her boyfriend could have sex while playing games, he'd stop ignoring her.
But knowing him, he'd get mad at her for blocking his vision and call her fat.

Oops, inappropriate.

 

[Sparx]

I'm sure if her boyfriend could have sex while playing games, he'd stop ignoring her.
But knowing him, he'd get mad at her for blocking his vision and call her fat.

Oops, inappropriate.

at the fat comment, i'd break up with him.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

Most girls would.

 

[Sparx]

Most girls would.

it sounds like its an abusive relationship.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

Oh, it is. Luckily, she's going to college away from him so maybe they'll break up.

 

[Sparx]

Oh, it is. Luckily, she's going to college away from him so maybe they'll break up.

have you talked to her about it?

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is it physically/sexually abusive or just emotionally?

 

[crazy2beautiful]

I talk to her about it all the time. All of her friends do. She refuses to break up with him. He's a pretty good looking guy, and I think she thinks she can't get any better than him. Probably because he tells her she can't.

It's all emotional abuse. If he ever really physically abused her, I'm sure someone would do something about it.

 

[Sparx]

I talk to her about it all the time. All of her friends do. She refuses to break up with him. He's a pretty good looking guy, and I think she thinks she can't get any better than him. Probably because he tells her she can't.

It's all emotional abuse. If he ever really physically abused her, I'm sure someone would do something about it.

my mom used to work in a battered women's shelter. I volunteered there a lot, plus I've written three or four essays about physical/sexual/emotional abusive relationships.

If she says she can't do better than him, he's told her she can't do better than him. He'll tell her things like shes lucky to have him, and not too many other guys would put up with her. If he's attractive, he's telling her shes ugly, and hes a good guy to stay with her anyway, because he could do better.

In my opinion, its one thing to hit a woman. That is bad. But cuts and bruises heal. The cuts emotional abuse can put on someone may never heal.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

I know he tells her all these things. I've heard him say it to her. I really don't know what his problem is, but I hope she leaves him and he either doesn't find anyone else or he gets his act together and is decent to the next girl he's with.

I know that if I was the one with him, I wouldn't be putting up with his crap. My friend is just weak. She always has been. And I guess he picked up on that right away.

 

[Sparx]

I know he tells her all these things. I've heard him say it to her. I really don't know what his problem is, but I hope she leaves him and he either doesn't find anyone else or he gets his act together and is decent to the next girl he's with.

I know that if I was the one with him, I wouldn't be putting up with his crap. My friend is just weak. She always has been. And I guess he picked up on that right away.

I really feel bad for your friend. Its a horrible place to be. I don't think that she's being abused becuase shes weak, though. These guys are con men. They come into the relationship all swave and sweet, then slowly they get meaner and meaner, and by the time you're used to having them around, they've convinced you that you can't be with anyone else. Some people are more easily manipulated though, but it can really happen to anyone.

He'll keep doing this. If she breaks up with him, he won't stop. Its just the mentality they have. They view their girlfriend/wife as an object to be controlled.

 

[crazy2beautiful]

I feel very bad for her, too. She's my best friend and I know she can do better. I've told her this a million times. I'm just waiting for the day that she'll realize it.

Hopefully when she gets to her college, she'll meet someone with the same interests as her who treats her right.