Do you hate your ex girl/boyfriend? if so, why?

[MagicalKingdom]

For me I don't, I've gotten over it, just live in the moment, don't dwell on the past.

 

[AKL_Megs]

Hmm... No, LOL. In high school, maybe, but that was 10 years ago and I could care less what any of them are doing.

 

[Disneycrazy!!]

no...i could care less about my ex husband. I have moved on and I have a new family. I am glad now that we are divorced, I was so unhappy but to afraid at the time to move forward. Glad we did because I met my husband now and have 2 beautiful little boys together.

 

[Heidict]

Nope, no hate. Maybe because I was lucky and never had horrible relationships or breakups. Plus, I'm extremely happy now.

 

[NeverlandClub23]

No way, I think you learn something from every relationship. Even the jerks. I'm not friends with any of them but I don't hate or wish them anything but happiness. I would hope they would think the same of me.

I have a friend who's husband cheated on her a TON with different women and she found out and divorced him. That was years ago and she still harbors resentment. I don't really get it though (I've been cheated on by quite a few boyfriend's and a fiance that I was living with) as she just won't let it go (or go to therapy). He also was a horrible boyfriend and was in denial about him cheating on her before the marriage so I think a lot of the resentment is also towards herself at making the choices she did.

 

[*pixie*dust*]

No, I don't hate my ex husband. I am angry at him sometimes because his lack of consideration hurts my DS but I dont hate him.

Hate only makes a person bitter. I dont want to be bitter.

 

[KristaTX]

I don't have any exes because I married my high-school sweetheart .

It's probably a good thing. I would probably only hate them if I did have them . I tend to hold a grudge . I have an ex-friend or two that I kind of despise .

 

[cteddiesgirl]

Nope. I don't tend to hold grudges. For a while I did, but got over it. Now I can even see why I wouldn't have been happy in the long run with my ex.

 

[TheZue]

There is one I hate, but I don't even think of him often enough for it to matter...I'm not mad about it, I just think he's about the biggest jerk on the planet. Of course he used to badger me about my weight when I was 120lbs, tell me I was useless, and call me stupid all the time, then I found out that he had slept with dozens of women over the two years we were together. I haven't seen him in years but I was pissed for a couple years and really needed some time to get over the abuse from that relationship. Gotta love having to dump somebody; then head directly to your doctor for tons of testing.

 

[dislaney]

No I don't. There was a time I hated one, but I think I really hated that I found out he was not the person I thought he was. Once I realized that, I could move on.

 

[Rora]

I definitely don't hate him. He taught me a lot about myself and relationships. We're nice to each other when we see each other but we have no desire to be friends.

 

[Kim&Chris]

Not anymore. I used to hate one guy in particular, because he lied to me from day one. But, after time, all that hatred went away and I couldn't care less about him. Time really does heal all wounds.

 

[Scurvy]

No. I don't have many exes, but I'm still friends with each of them. My husband has actually become good friends with a couple of them, and I've become good friends with a few of their wives.

 

[Handbag Lady]

I don't speak to them, don't interact with them, and we don't even have friends or even friends of friends of friends in common.

Then again, I've been with my husband for 15 years now, so it makes sense.


I guess if I ran into any one of them, it would be neat to see where they are in life, and I would hope they are happy. So, I guess I don't hate them. (I never really thought about it, go figure!)

 

[Jen0504]

I didn't hate my ex-husband (he has now passed away). I may have disliked him at times, and hated some of the things he did. Especially when it effected my children.

 

[Irin997]

Yes but that is probably because he owes me $17,000 in back child support and has essentially evaporated into thin air. Haven't gotten a payment in a year and a half and that was the last time I even knew what state he lived in.

 

[Acklander]

Not at all. I don't know if it's because I've been incredibly lucky or have great taste in guys but I've gone out with some really nice people. I don't hate any of them, or even dislike them, for the most part each of the relationships ended because they had run their course - we had a great time, and then moved on. While I don't "hang" with any of them now, many I've reconnected with over the past year on face book - so it's been nice catching up with them after all these years.

 

[Robinrs]

Nope, in fact I've friended most of them on facebook!! (the ones I could find or found me!)

I could hate Michael's Dad but don't because he's psychologically damaged. The ugly part is he uses that damage to try to hurt us but he can't anymore. I actually feel sorry for him more than dislike him because he missed out on the most incredible kid... too bad.

 

[SC Minnie]

No. Never really went through any 'bad' breakups like another PP mentioned the relationships just ran their course.

Some of my exboyfriends may 'hate' me but that's another story.

 

[disneybound2010]

I'm still friends with a few of my exes. There are two that I would rather not have anything to do with, but I don't hate them. I pity both of them actually. They both made some very unhealthy decisions that were the reasons for our breakups. I wish them the best of luck in life and hope that they eventually find the kind of happiness that I have found.