If you valet at one deluxe resort and go to dinner at another one, you do not have to pay for valet parking at the second resort. Just tell the valet when you leave the first resort where you are going and they will put a colored and date stamped tag on your dashboard. When the valet at the second resort sees that, they will know not to charge you (however, do remember to tip when they bring your car back at the second resort after dinner). We do this all the time and it is never an issue.