In response (your observations in bold, then my respnse)....
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I thought I was prepared I was just the opposite the first time at WDW, not necessarily about the castle, but everything I had a really hard time getting over how big it was and felt overwhelmed. I personally prefer the charm of DL and would choose it over WDW any day.
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The DL Cast Members are far friendlier i don't remember noticing a difference, but again, maybe because WDW is so much bigger the staff isn't as cozy with eaachother and customers...
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Tickets appeared to be available only at the Parks. Yes, you can get tickets at your hotel or pick them up if you ordered them as part of a package anyway. ANd themonoral not having a ticket booth, well It wasn't meant as a regular entrance into the park. In fact it used to stop IN on of the DLHotel buildings... it was meant to be sort of like the private Grand entrance... I do love it if you have your tickets ready to go and the once time it was down when we were visiting I was totally put out!
~~Villas at the Grand CalifornianI just love everything at the Grand. it's our favorite place to say and so nice to just wake up and be there at the parks already isn't it.
~~Because it was raining really hard, a lot of stuff was shut down, including the monorail. No food kiosk's were open, I hadn't thought baout that before, but yeah, much of the food at DL is outdoor seating... because it's just about always blue skies this has never been a problem. We have even been there in the rain a few times and usually go in january and ususally don't even get wet because it isn't pouring! But the year we went to WDW we got SOAKED on our last day and felt the same way. Hope next time you get to enjoy the sun.
~~DL and California Adventure are easier to do than WDW. Once you get there, you are there, no major decisions on transportation on how to get somewhere else. You do not waste a lot of your day getting from one Park to another. This is why DL is so charming to us... I feel like WDW is just bigger, which means longer walks, mor stoller parking, just more empty space... I like the compactness of DL and much prefer it. I also love just being right there, parkk hopping or going back to the hotel for a bit if needed and not missing 1/2 a day working out transportation.
~~Que lines are much narrower for the original attractions. Small enough to make you literally single file. Not a problem, just a surprise. The most noticeable to me was Peter Pan, which is better at DL, imho. Again, my favorite part of DL. I think just about any duplicate ride was better in DL.... and part of tha tis the small que and how cozy it is.
~~WOD is the only option for Disney merchandise in DTD. At WDW, it is nice to have the Christmas store, the kitchen store, Goofys Candy Company and the Art of Disney, among others to find specific merchandise. It was surprising to see stores such as Sephora in DTD. because I am not a typical Disney freak I just LOVE this part of DTD... it's my treat too get to run into sephora, and we of course love the
lego store, etc...