Hey there
@DisneyFansInNYC, sorry your trip is over.

But I'll be selfish and ask when is your next video going to be ready?

(I'm kidding BTW)
Interesting comment about that particular Poly CL chef. He has been there as long as I've been going to Poly (admittedly not that long). My interactions with him have been totally bipolar. For the longest time he didn't talk much (I am like your DH and like to say hi/thanks when I can) and was pretty cold. He seemed to become more chatty this year with the small plates given the chef is pretty much 'there' during most of the app service and he had no choice but to engage, or maybe he just finally warmed up to me. But yeah, that's a pretty horrible thing to say to a guest... I'm sorry that happened to you guys.
There's a female chef (name is escaping me) who unfortunately doesn't seem to work Poly CL that often but I wish she did. Her service has been A+.
Other than that, did you have a good trip overall?