I'm not trying to convince you, nor would I expect to. Our priorities and values aren't the same and likely never will be. I'm simply stating my opinion about how I feel about people who have no consideration for those around them.
I was raised to be courteous and respectful of other people; that we are all important and that my time isn't any more valuable or worthy than anyone elses time - from the CEO right down to the homeless person.
We were raised with certain values when it comes to our neighbors on this planet: You don't make a tremendous amount of noise after 10:00pm out of consideration for people who might be sleeping. You don't interrupt other people because what you think what you have to say is more important than what they're saying. You don't speak loudly in a movie theatre because others are trying to focus on the film they paid to see.
The list goes on. The gist is that you have consideration for others; that you're not the only person in the world and 99.9% of the population isn't focuesed on you, what you're going to do next and what your current personal drama is. You are NOT a movie star.
As I said before this kind of behavior is narcissistic; a value our parents taught us was ugly, unkind and without any sort of redemption whatsoever. A behavior to be avoided. I wouldn't expect someone with an attitude of, "I'm going to do whatever I want and the hell with anyone else" to be understanding or "convinced" of that particular value.
