Disney Wedding!

[i heart tinkerbell]

Hey guys! I am so excited for July 6th!

My brother is getting married in disney!

Only one problem , I may not be able to go because of the huge
fight my parents have had.

Please help me think of some ideas to say to my mom and my dad.

Whenever I try to talk about it , they attempt to outspeak me and get the last word in.

I've tried:

Me:You obviously don't care about me.
Dad: I never said you did.
Me:You implied it.

Me: He's my flesh and blood.
Dad: No, he's my flesh and blood. He's just your brother.
Me: He's always been there for me.
Dad: He's never been there for me.
Dad: I'm so pissed at him like you don't even kno.
Me: Well i'm gonna be more than that you can ever imagine if you don't let me go.
Dad: Well I guess I just have to live with that like I put up with your brother's bull****.

I've tried talking to him and sitting both of my parents down.

I've basically tried everything in the book.

Are there any pyschologists out there? Or at least
good convincers?

They have been fueding with my brother for years and he couldn't take it
anymore and just took off this august. I would of done the same exact thing. They THINK they hate my brother's fiance`, who is the nicest person I have ever met because shes big. They call her "the whale" , and she is also not the neatest person. My mom says, you don't see anyone that big. You have to care what people think. True love doesn't exist. I am having a mental breakdown just hearing her pathetic voice.

Please help me. Please. I need to be there. This happens (hopefully) once in a lifetime. Please help. me.

I also have to see someone very special there. I'll give details later.

Sorry this is so long!

Love,
Chrissy

 

[Daisymae26]

Maybe you should calmly explain to your parents why you want to go. Don't get mad at them (well, at least try) and try to use a conversational tone of voice. Say something like you love your brother very much, and even if your parents weren't going to the wedding, you could still fly down by yourself. I hope this helps and good luck!

 

[BandGeek911]

Maybe you should calmly explain to your parents why you want to go. Don't get mad at them (well, at least try) and try to use a conversational tone of voice. Say something like you love your brother very much, and even if your parents weren't going to the wedding, you could still fly down by yourself. I hope this helps and good luck!

Do your parents not like her only because she's large? I think that's a pretty sad excuse for not liking someone (no offense) But judging her because of her size is pretty childish.

even if it's not only about the size, I do think your parents are being very unreasonable. Even if I get mad at my son or daughter (When or if I have any) I wouldn't miss their wedding for the world. Especially if it were in Disney.

Hope I wasn't too mean.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

Explain to your parents that a wedding is a huge thing, his little boy is starting a life on his own with someone he truely loves. Everyone makes mistakes, you can't turn back time. You want to spend as much time with someone as you can because you never know what the next day may bring. This boy and his parents were not close at all, they fought all the time. The boy got married to a beautiful girl she was so sweet, his parents were not there. It was the most regretful day of their lives. You see on the way to the airport it was still very dark, early in the morning. It was around 3am, a drunk driver was speeding down the highway with his headlights off. The boy and his new wife never had time to get out of the way. The drunk driver had lots of chances to pull over and/or get out of the way but he did not. The boy was killed instantly and his wife was rushed to ER. She had a gut feeling that her love was not with her anymore so she gave up the fight and died 5 hours after the accident. You want to be there for your kids no matter how much you hate them or are fighting with them. They only get married once (well some get married and divorced many times), and it will be your biggest regret when/if you make up that you missed it. The most important day in his life.

 

[!!PonyBoy!!]

Hey July 6th is my birthday !!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[tinkerbelle22]

I agree with Daisymae. Try hard not to get mad, and don't be mean back to them, it will only make things worse. And from experience, I'm personally not at all skinny, and I've had people talk behind my back and be mean to me because of it, even my friends. So let your parents know that it probably hurts even more to be your brothers' fiance in that situation. And do remind them that it's the happiest day of your brother's life. He and you should enjoy it.

Good luck! Hopefully your parents will see the light! Wow, that sounds so religious!

-Tink

 

[MuNkY]

I would go anyway. See if your brother can fly you out there or something.

 

[i heart tinkerbell]

Thank-you for all of the support. I promise to help you guys whenever you need help. Feel free to PM me!

 

[Miss_Will_Turner]

well, you may want to convince your father that flesh and blood runs through siblings as well, and if your father's sooo convinced about the flesh and blood thing, tell him that he should support your brther's decisions and your want to go. You may want to tell your father that he's producing less reason for anyone to look up to him and that tis' dissapointing. Try to make him feel a little bad, at least. I dunno , but that's what I gots to offer. My best of wishes to ye matey!

 

[Princess Ash]

Tell him that weddings are the beginning of a new life...wounds don't mend over night...nope...but wouldn't it be wonderful for them allll to start a new life? A wedding is once in a lifetime. They are not marrying his fiance, he is. They don't have to like her. But they should love their son, because as awful (or not awful) as he may have been, he will always love them, and in their hearts, they will always love him. And like Charmaine said...you never know when it will be the last day...

Good luck

Hey, keep us updated please?

 

[i heart tinkerbell]

Oh defitnely.

He talked to my mom today.

And my dad.

My brother, that is, and she was freaking out so much and so loud, the whole block heard him.

Now my dad is suposedely saying that if my brother " works things out " with my mom, he'll goto the wedding with us.

 

[MuNkY]

Tell him that weddings are the beginning of a new life...wounds don't mend over night...nope...but wouldn't it be wonderful for them allll to start a new life? A wedding is once in a lifetime. They are not marrying his fiance, he is. They don't have to like her. But they should love their son, because as awful (or not awful) as he may have been, he will always love them, and in their hearts, they will always love him. And like Charmaine said...you never know when it will be the last day...

Good luck

Hey, keep us updated please?

Not in today's society.