We are going to Tokyo in Nov .Ihave been before quite a few years a go I lived & worked in Akasaka .I think we will stay in that area it is an hour to Disney but i love that area close to nice restraunts & lots of sites.We are going 8 days with 3 kids.Plan on 4 days Disney not sure other days .I would like to go to Kyoto how far is it & easiest way to get there.I t must have changed Tokyo since i was there i used to stay mainly in Roppongi American quarter good nightlife but now have kids so it will be different.I met a Japanese couple who had the most amazing pictures of Charactors in colorful costumes .I hope they have Meet N greets with some of them does anyone know any charactor meals?I broughtToyko made easy book but doesnt say thanks T

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Akasaka to Maihama Station (TDR gateway) is approximately 40 minutes with one change of trains.
The best way to reach Kyoto (IMHO) is via the Shinkansen (high speed train). If you take the Nozomi (shinkansen with the least amount of stops), it takes about 2 hours and 20 minutes from Tokyo Station. The cost each way per person is about $80 (and costs an additional $60 if you want to reserve a seat - otherwise, you go into a train car with unreserved seats and hopefully can all sit together).
I don't recall any character meals at Tokyo Disney. There are some dinner shows, though, but you have to reserve those ahead of time on the web site, I believe.
We saw characters everywhere at both parks, especially at the front entrance area of Disneyland and Toontown. People queue up for the major characters (Mickey/Minnie), but other characters are basically mobbed and you have to just jump in there when you get a chance. We got pictures with or of a ton of characters, especially the ones we rarely see at WDW (Clarice, Scrooge McDuck, Prince Eric & Max The Dog, The Rescuers' Bernard & Bianca, etc.) We saw Mickey, Minnie, Stitch, Chip & Dale, Donald, Daisy, Peter Pan, Captain Hook, Mary Poppins, The Country Bears, Marie, and so on...and we spoke to, got pictures of or pictures with all of them...no problem.